Guy's Behavior

Did you ever realize later on why someone didn't want to keep in touch with you and just basically disappeared or quietly left your life?

Earlier this year a coworker who oversexualized (read: hit on and sexually harassed) and also led me on emotionally) me for like 2 years and I fell for him (I dont have premarital sex by the way so this was all emotional on my part)... Well he left the job and i had no clue until months went by and i had not seen him at work any more. Mutual acquaintances mentioned him here and there so I guess he stayed in touch with those boys bit didn't even want to tell me he was leaving or why or where he was going. Anyway yeah.

Today I saw others doing the work we once did ( i left the job recently) and I don't know why but it seemed kinda pathetic to me? Like the job itself. As if it was a bottom of the rung job. I dont think i used to see it in that light when i did it. But it reminded me of how he had told me he would be rich one day. I thought that was pretty lofty and he was being a tad ambitious... Like settle down now... But maybe he didn't want to keep in contact because he found a better job and didn't want to be associated with such patheticness and maybe thats why he sexually harassed me and treated me like a toy/joke to him... Cause he knew this job was a bottom rung pathetic stepping stone? I don't know...

Did you ever realize later on why someone didn't want to keep in touch with you and just basically disappeared or quietly left your life?
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