Ever had to deal with someone who just disappeared entirely?

[Anonymous]

i guess they typically refer to this as ghosting although my personal experience seems to go beyond the typical ghosting encounter. as this person has like literally dropped off the face of the earth. i haven't seen them in my home area since the end of last summer. no where that they used to be and not even around on holidays or other times someone more likely to be around here.

since there was no explanation or closure from this person i don't know why they did this or what exactly motivated there behaviour

i obviously tried to make contact online but didn't hear back , haven't heard a word from them in over 8 months

[Anonymous]

Maybe they died 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

i know it seems like they died , but pretty sure that isn't what happened to them. none of her friends have talked to me about her or what went on with her. but my understanding was she had been at school some of this time but had been back home for the holidays and last summer worked at a restaurant here that was the last place i talked to her at , our last conversation didn't seem out of the ordinary or negative which made her disappearance that much more off

[Opinion Owner]

That is very strange indeed

[Asker]

one of the few things i was able to come up with which actually showed her were a couple pictures of her with some girlfriend's at a bar near where she lived when at school. the bar posted some pictures to facebook each week and was some of her but more around sep/oct nothing recently but i haven't seen her in our hometown since last year

[Asker]

i still talk to girls that she's friends with here but none of them have mentioned anything about her in a long time and haven't said if she plans to come back home this summer or not or what she has been doing this time. one girlfriend mentioned she had seen her once during the fall but that was only time she mentioned her

[Opinion Owner]

So she was just out there for school? Or she's away for school?
Either way, she could've kept in touch with you. That's a bit rude

[Asker]

i know you still expect something even if its just a brief hi or something when she was back home at the pub downtown or something but been nothing for 8 months

[Opinion Owner]

Man that's insane. I guess she ain't worth your time

[Asker]

i know feel like if i do see her this summer , going to not be too impressed with her and might be rather blunt with her about what i think about this and what i wanted in an actual friendship with someone

[Asker]

your right is does seem like they died in the sense not in reality of course but they have ceased to exist in any capacity in my home town since aug 30 2022 or whatever day i last saw them. they decided to not be around this area or anywhere i might see them

[Opinion Owner]

My girlfriend died Aug 25th 2022
I know that doesn't relate to your story, but that's a weird coincidence

[KrakenAttackin]

I usually am that person.