He answered after one day and a half , is he not that interested?

[Anonymous]

Well should I stop seeing him , we've only seen each other twice

[20yearsolder]

Only you can make that decision, if that time span is unacceptable to you then you need to move on. You also have to take into consideration that he might be busy. Maybe he's not exclusive with you?

[Asker]

I hate that I saw him online everytime I checked , like it's so easy to answer , if he doesn't i think it's bc he doesn't want to and that means I have to be more careful with this guy, he might have been talking to another girl or not whatever I don't want to be plan c

[20yearsolder]

You're not in a committed relationship with him yet, it's very possible that he's talking to another girl. If you had a good time then wait. Has he planned another date yet? I guess not. Wait and see what happens

[Asker]

Well he invited me over his house and I said I couldn't and I told him that I prefer to go out to the park a couple times more before going to his home and he said he understands,

[Asker]

The more he does this the more hard to get I'll get

[Asker]

And when I said the more he does I meant that the more he does this of responding so late , the messages have already been deleted bc I got activated the 24hs shit that deletes stuff automatically and he didn't even put that thing that tick that means that he has seen it now wtf is he going to say , respond my deleted messages or say hi like nothing happened dang I'm losing interest isn't that normal

[msc545]

Yes, I checked with him personally, and he is not interested. Is that better?

[Sugarplumfairy21]

How was the convo after he answered? Was it normal? Was it dry? He could have been really busy. If he didn’t answer for a week that would be another case.

[Guy13]

What kind of thinking is this ⁉️🤷🏻‍♂️

[Guy13]

I know you want a successful relationship OR you would not be wasting your Time. This is clear, however, has it ever occurred to you that he had a life outside of you before meeting you ⁉️ That he had pre-existing responsibilities are important in his daily flow and success⁉️ Do you work?
It seems to me that your expectations are unrealistic and ultimately they and associated behavior will drive him away. It may be good to back-off a bit and ebb-flow more 🙂

[Asker]

Yeah but it takes nothing to answer, if he doesn't answer is because he doesn't want to, not because he couldn't , he is a dj... And only does that , I mean , come on. I don't know if he is doing it on purpose or he just forgot of me, both reasons mean that he is not that interested in me , I'm too interested in him, bc I would never do that , and I also have. Busy life but still I can , I don't do it its because I don't want to , it's hard for me to accept this that's why ask u guys but well u think different and that's fine

[Guy13]

You are making lots of assumptions in my view without all the information. You have no idea what’s up. Anyway that I look at it , even if you are accurate, your judgment is poor and your Drama Factor is high 🤷🏻‍♂️. Assuming makes an Ass out of you and me 🙃

[Asker]

Well now it's he third time that he hasn't replied my messages for three days and today it might be more I don't know, we were talking everyday and all of the sudden he doesn't reply for days and his excuse is that he is tired to answer messages and then he forgets but he says he is interested and so I told him I would try to think well , but still I don't feel much comfortable with the way he is with me , I don't know if he is like that or he is just not that interested and I can't know because he says he is interested but his actions confuse me do u believe him?