Was he just not interested?

[Anonymous]

This was just as things were opening up etc but I went on a few dates with a guy in early 2021 and we had a covid lockdown here

Anyways when it came to our third date, as everything was opening up... I gave him some dates I was available, at least 3 or 4 options but he wasn't available for a month to see me. He even showed me his calender with all of his plans etc, but he had so many friends and plans booked and travel plans

One Sunday he said last minute he had a few hours to spare but I just felt like an option so I declined

Some Sundays he was so busy from sports straight to the pub with his friends. Again no time. Not even on a Sunday

He did seem genuinely busy but wouldn't you make time if you really liked someone?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah, if I'm being real it doesn't really sound like he was that into you. I mean, dudes make time for what's important ya know?

When a guy is feeling someone, he'll move stuff around to see them. Rescheduling friends, cutting plans short, whatever he's gotta do. We don't wanna miss the chance to shoot our shot if we're feeling the vibe.

This dude always being "busy" with other stuff and not seeing you for a whole month? Nah, that ain't it. He was just keeping you on the backburner as an option while doing his own thing.

I'd say cut your losses and keep it pushing. Spend your energy on people who actually WANT to see you, not dudes who act too cool to make plans. Trust, his loss.

You'll find someone way better who'll be tryna lock you down as his main girl, no question. Have some faith and stay focused on your purpose - the right one will come eventual. Peace!

[Fireguy17]

He's just not into you.
I would make time for anyone that I was interested in, even if it was a half hour to say hello.

[Asker]

It was when covid was opening up. He showed me his calender and literally was seeing friends everyday for work. He had sports on weekends and then sports gatherings after the game

[Asker]

But still. Very last minute if a friend cancelled then he let me know but I wasn't going to just drop everthing

[Anonymous]

2021, that was years ago why haven’t you moved on from this…

[Asker]

Became he came back around

[Asker]

Because*

[Opinion Owner]

Well, I hope you don’t waste your time on him again. People make time to prioritize the things that matter most, and he wasn’t making that effort for you. On top of that, why would you even wanna go through this whole headache again? Him being too busy to make time and all that, there’s too many men out there to settle.

[Asker]

So do you agree he just wasn't in to me?

[Opinion Owner]

Do our answers make or break you decision?

[In_Trance]

Nope

[Asker]

So he was or wasn't?