Why hasn’t he reached out to me?

[Anonymous]

We’re just friends with benefits. We fucked the first night we met, don’t judge. And he hasn’t contacted me since we fucked 4 days ago. When he left my house he didn’t say bye or look at me. So I’m wondering wtf is going on and should I contact him or not?

He only wanted to fuck me 1 time

He’s messing with someone else

My sex/head was NOT good

He has pride and don’t wanna seem desperate

Other comment

Maybe I should contact him

[Anonymous]

A man that is a slave to pleasure will still partake in it with a woman. But ultimately he will never truly respect her, take her seriously or have a deep reverence for her. All of the actions you described: 'didn’t say bye or look at me.' show this.

Men operate under a dual strategy, women also do but in a very different way. Therefore your options are to either accept this behavior or potential outcome, or rise above mere pleasure and cease such behavior. Any man doing the friends with benefits likely has more than one as well...

[Ryan1979]

I am just kidding. Guys will do that. a lot of times they feel guilty ie. They didn't perform well they don't know how you feel after it happened. They don't want to seem desperate. Did you ask him to text or call after. He doesn't know what you want, I would text and ask him if he wanted to go get coffee or see a movie if you are interested in him

[Anonymous]

Not judging just clarifying: you’ve only met him once and that was the time you hooked up, and haven’t heard from him since? If so then yeah, that was definitely a hit it and quit it.

[Dinklex3]

He didn't say bye or even look at you.

That says a lot.

No, don't contact him. Move on and forget about him.

[242plusInfinity]

Chill dude. Chill. Who cares what happens he is a friends with benefits. If he reaches out great, if not who cares. Just chill. Just ask yourself this. What if he thought the sex was great? Then allow yourself to feel like that is true and just keep doing that every time you get worked out over nothing. Chill. Don't do anything crazy.

[Hybridbox]

Guys are more driven by their desire for sex than emotional connection with women. Its just the nature of things. If you want to have sex again, contact him. If you want an actual relationship, don't.

[lorenzomichael]

Because he really don't like you or need you for anything
Just your pussy.

[Wise4myage]

He got what he wanted.