Why didn't he approach me?

[goatxr]

So this week me and a few coworkers were at a function for work and as we always do me and my friends were sitting at a table talking. During the whole function I saw this cute guy standing on the wall but I didn't approach him. LSS: He was standing in the doorway so I passed by him a couple times and the last time I did, he spoke to me,although I hardly heard him and he probably didn't hear me respond because it was in passing. So a little later my friend thinks its a good idea to call him over and say I wanted to talk to him though I didn't.I didn't pay any attention to him really at first but after a few moments he didn't go away so I asked him to sit down. He was really quiet once he sat and eventually asked me for my number (almost a mumble, I hardly heard him). My question is,was he interested, if this guy had been seeing me all night and was interested or thought I was cute, why didn't he approach me? And what are some reasons guys don't approach women?

[joanajones]

You just need to create yourself an ideal situation for him to approach you.

Just relax and focus on some of the things here.

Your first attention should be focusing on that what kind of companion your guy is into.

Because your fun, intelligence, and sense for exciting will make a major role in this. Share different activities with your guy, let him feel free to behave around you in the way he wants, otherwise he may feel unpleasant with you.

That’s very healthy for building you relationship. Make up few jokes, laugh with him, and show him your sense of humor. He will love it, believe me.

Guys do love good sex, but also healthy appearance and trust in the relationship. Remember that.

Do not allow yourself to ruin a good opportunity to do something that is important for you. Many girls magazines gives so much useless advice about guys.

It's often difficult for a girl to know exactly what guys like.

These were few tips in one huge subject and a big mystery in general - what is that guys like.

One day maybe that secret whole will be discovered, and come out from the shadows of the unknown. But until then, you’ll have to learn from these advices, and walk step by step towards the secret of what guys want. If you’re interesting in finding more about what is necessary to find or keep the guy you think you deserve, check out this link

I hope I helped you with this, because you seems like a lovely girl :) Good luck!

[Nataliee]

Guys don't approach women for the same reason you didn't approach him yourself - its very scary and nerve-wracking and no one likes being rejected. Just see where it goes :)

[goatxr]

Actually I didn't approach him because I was being a lady and letting him be the agressor... not scared at all... its not my job to approach a guy...

[digital_haze]

"ts not my job to approach a guy..."

Sigh...

[Anonymous]

90%of guys don't cold approach. I have plenty of guy friends and all of them don't approach girls they find attractive because she's a stranger.
That's just how it is nowadays for men. Why approach when I can match with 50 bitches on tinder? And I don't need to feel nervous.

That's how modern guys think. It's rare for men to approach in settings like that since they can't get drunk or act unprofessional.

[Ghibli]

Can I ask you this... what if a guy notice you first before you notice him and he approach you before you even look at him at all, and started a great light conversation with you, would you give the guy your number, or would you not cause he didn't waited for you to give him a signal like you smiling at him, in order for him to approach you?

[digital_haze]

He shy. From the sound of it, VERY shy. I'm surprised he had the balls to ask for your number. He probably likes you a lot if he was that shy and still asked for your number.

[jahhuit]

he was obviously a shy guy.