I am 5'2 (158 cm) and about 100 pounds (45 kg) female.. and every time I show anger men laugh at me and say I'm cute. Even if I tell them I'm serious they keep going.
What should I do to show them I'm serious? And why would anyone laugh at someone for showing anger? How is that "cute"? I might be small but we can be dangerous too!
I had the same problem. It fucking sucks. But even if you could take them in a fight, that only helps in theory. Not in reality. You're just even angrier and maybe pretty roughed up. I was fucking crazy and I could take anyone at one point in my life, and yknow that was the angriest i've ever been and the most fucked up I've ever gotten was in that period. If you wanna get better you have to be okay with not being taken seriously. Not okay as in "i don't care" but okay as in "i dont wanna waste my breath." Being in a situation with little or no control, there's nowhere for that anger to go, and it can be like an explosion.
You have to learn to feel angry, and just feel it, let it pass through you without taking over and busting you open. It takes practice I think but after a while it does get easier, you CAN be in a situation where you're really REALLY angry, and be "okay" with being unable to really do anything about it. Sometimes you just can't do anything. A lot of the time, you can't do what you WANT to do. But most of the time, you can do something.
You can tell them they're acting like a dick, and why, and what is wrong. They probably still won't take you seriously. Especially if you don't do well under pressure, you can walk away, or disengage. You can take time to cool down by putting the anger in writing, art, yelling, running, punching bag, etc to get it out of your system for a minute. And you can talk to other people about it. You can find people who do take you seriously. Cause the people who don't, are dicks. Period.
Basically. There's not much you can do about dicks. But you can take yourself seriously, and keep your head when you're angry. You can express your anger in healthy ways, and to people who listen, instead of people who mock you. And you can take a lot of the fun out of mocking you by not reacting to it, or by not interacting with those people, anymore. They won't listen.
Being angry got so much easier for me when I stopped hanging around people who egged me on during it. My current friends will actually listen if I'm upset, and when I have gotten really heated they try to talk me down instead of pushing me off the edge. Cause friends—any decent person, really—doesn't enjoy watching people explode like that. Or maybe they just don't realize it's a person in there. Either way they're fucking toxic as hell and don't interact with them for extended periods of time if it's at all avoidable. They are the biggest problem.
You're trying to be taken seriously or trying to intimidate men?
No man is going to be intimidated if that's your goal.
I can't help but laugh when a considerably smaller girl says they'll beat my ass.
Want to just be taken seriously? Then drop the "dangerous" mentality, stop yelling, and express yourself with words.
Start training in MMA!!! Trust me, once a man is aware that you're an MMA fighter, they grow a subconscious fear that's always kept at the back of their mind that's always telling them "don't piss this girl off or you'll regret it."
I think you'll find they will stop laughing and start taking you more seriously then.
Sometimes you just gotta fuck some shit up don't kill anybody that be crazy just fuck some shit up maybe brake a tv or throw a lamp or throw a lamp through a tv whatever you do just hold true to the words you are saying follow through but whatever you do don't fuck up his car we don't tolerate that type of behavior
You are like angry child, being so angry is unfeminine, at least they don't think that you are feminist.
Nothing. Only people who care about your feelings will care about you being mad.
Well, don't use emojis when someone talk to you in serious manner. That is the worst insult you can do to other person. gut feelings can't be trusted.
Lol that is funny🤣🤣
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