Why do guys say I’m angry?

[Anonymous]

I talked to two guys who have said that I’m “angry” in some way or another..

Sometimes I do struggle with depression, low self esteem etc. I was hurt by the first guy who said that I was insecure and angry.. he didn’t want a relationship then I found out he’s getting engaged 7 months after we stopped taking.

The guy I was recently talking to for a month said that “I have misdirected anger and I wish you peace” then he blocked me.

In all honesty maybe I am but I deeply craving love and for someone to just understand me in someway

[art84]

Do you come across as angry in your tone like speech and body language? Like does anything get you upset easily over anything. I myself have low self esteem and depression and was mad in my 20's and showed it in my face and tone of voice. People never told me about it though I have always held anger instead from my childhood and situations in my life from women.

[Asker]

I can totally relate. I listed some of the reasons why and I do have some resentment in my childhood.

I’m just so tired of feeling like I’m second love to most guys I talk to. I’m tired of being left for someone better.

[CarolinaJones]

It's probably because of your tone of speech. Do you cuss or say something inappropiate? Do you get easily frustrated? OR your actions may have been perceived as aggressive.

[Asker]

No , but I think I do get fustrated easily.. I feel like I take something a guy does very personally regardless if it’s intentional or not.

[LazerBean]

Because you are.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because you are angry, you admitted it