I argue with a sexist pig.
Well... he IS right about men and women being different, and double standards are here to stay, even if we don't like them.
But his argument about *cheating men still having value* is kind of ridiculous because it comes from a very shallow place. Like a REALLY dumb technicality.
A woman would only stay with a cheater because they are usually the bread winners, and they don't have any other immediate options to think of. At this point, it's just to survive.
But the future of that relationship is doomed... because the woman now feels inadequate and no longer trusts her partner. If she had the means to support herself, she would probably leave him that very second.
So yeah, this dude isn't really looking that far ahead.
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The largest sense of irony is that the smartest people on earth are still too dumb to understand what causes the dumbest people on earth to be so stupid.
We won't have an answer until we have mastered genetic manipulation. A skill currently deemed taboo by most because of how it can be used with malicious intent.
Technically he's not wrong, men and women are different when it comes to cheating BUT do we really need to continue creating men like that? If a guy cheats on you, dump him. We don't need future cheaters. (Ofc, with divorce it's not the same and hypergamy is also a factor in this).
I can't with that shit. Cheating is cheating regardless of which gender is doing it. They are just saying that men doing it isn't as bad so they don't have to take responsibility for their actions.
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Self centered ass holes will always make excuses for their behavior.
Cheaters are liars who sneak behind people's backs. They are no better than thieves. They are not worth the price of spit.
Not all of them are necessarily stupid, but they are unethical, immoral and, in some cases, sociopathic.😩 On AvErAgE I Am MoRe LiKeLy To Be TaLlEr ThAn YoU, sO I cAn GiVe YoU aN sTd No PrObLeM, ItS bIoLoGy BrAh!! 🤡
Haha that guy is a tool. Cheating is cheating. He actually is one of those guys that wants to be able to do whatever he wants whenever he wants and it be ok but wants to control others.
ok yeah that’s nuts. We need stupid people. Otherwise we wouldn’t be able to argue like that.
I like the part “there will always be double standard”.
Thats true of all equality. Think of a scale measuring two separate items. It will never be completely equal to the nth degree. As Game of Thrones said, “one spoke on top then another.”
The best plan is to just be as self aware as possible and realize when you're on top so you can give a hand up to others. Loke the ones at our southern border.
I may have competley missed your point. But that was my read.
Never argue with a pig. The pig will drag you to the mud and will enjoy it.
Good effort there; but I don't think he's going to listen. Those types never do.
Make good arguments, don't worry about convincing individuals.
Get to the core of the issue.Cheating is cheating. It's shitty reflection of your character. It's got nothing to do with home making. I don't know what he's getting at. Is he crazy? 😂
I realize that you are offended by your perception that a double standard is at work here. However - the two situations are not comparable:
1. We know through experience that a woman that cheats and is caught is likely to continue cheating and be more careful not to be caught. A man is more likely to forgive her because finding another woman is difficult, and in divorce, men get financially raped.2. We also know that when a man cheats he is less likely to do it again simply because the potential consequences are severe - winding up alone and divorce and loss of child custody and money.
Women can always find another man - a man cannot always find another woman.
I mean to be fair reddit has it's reputation as incel/loser central for a reason.
I'm sure this guy watches Fresh & Fit and takes every word they say to heart. When Myron only argues from a Muslim stand point.
His example is stupid.
But i agree with his point about double standards being normal.
Men and women aren't the same so they can't have the same standards
That's definitely a double standard. unconcious people never see what they're doing.
The reality is women would rather share an Alpha than have a beta simp to themselves.
So we can feel better about ourselves.
It hurts how stupid we've gotten.
Damn. That's incriminating
That is pretty stupid. He’s justifying cheating.
What a F@#%EN IDIOT! DTMFer!
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