Suggestions.. after a makeout who is not a boy friend?

[rittzy]

So, yesterday day it was my first kiss and make out... n after few hrs we were talking on chat so he asked to have sex with me so i said NO to him... n he tried to convince me two more times still i said NO... after tht he is not talking to me at all.. or he is being very rude to me.. but tbvh he my very good frnd... we are close.. n i dont wanna break the friendship n i am feeling very scared now.. if anything bad happens i am over thinking a lot...

[Effably]

So I will argue the other side: Assuming he is about your age. He just got rejected repeatedly and has no idea what to do or how to go about it now.

He is likely feeling the same as you. While he obviously does want your body that isn't a bad thing per say. I would have assumed with just making out that attraction is there for both of you.

Since you can only control yourself and not him, my suggestion is that you reach out. Message or alike. Explain your view. Things are going fast. You're still taking things in. Not wanting to rush things. Whatever the reason is. And then normalize the interaction by asking or shifting the topic to some other hobby or shared activity. That way you are setting an example for future interactions and can decide to not have things be weird.

Of course if he persists in only wanting sex? Eh. Clearly not a good match for you.

[Jacobbbb]

He only wants you for your body and he's distancing himself after he realized he's not getting it. If you want a friendship with the dude he's gonna expect that. The decision is up to you

[rittzy]

But it was just my Frist time... !! So obvious he won't get it so fast

[Jacobbbb]

Not sure then 🤷‍♂️