I don't know how to handle my boyfriend using make-up?

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It all started few months ago when he got a rash on his face. He used to get this rash when he was little too sometimes, he is nordic and has very sensitive pale skin. Usually what causes this rash is sun, sweat, alcohol, cigs, junk food. Doctors told him many times he needs a healthier lifestyle if he wants to get rid of it. But he is stubborn and of course spending summer partying and drinking he has rash again. He had an important meeting so I offered him my conditioner, but now he is using it on a daily basis. Eventually he discovered eyebrow pencil as well and is using that too because "he always hated his blond eyebrows". I understand that he is frustrated about the rash and that make-up can cover some stuff, but he honestly looks ridiculous. He puts too much and he looks like a clown. I offered to teach him how to put it nicely but he doesn't let me he says he likes it the way he puts it. It destroys his face both in looks and health, he shouldn't be putting ANYTHING especially make-up on that rash. I honestly don't care at all about how he looks, he is beautiful and hot to me naturally with his male features, no matter the rash. I believe this comes from his own insecurities because he's very self-conscious generally, but I just can't stand it. I'm trying to be supportive but if this is his true self and he'll look like this from now on, I can't stay. I asked him and he said it's just until rash is gone... but it's been months. I don't even know if rash is gone, he doesn't even let me see his no make-up face anymore. What's going on with him?

I don't know how to handle my boyfriend using make-up?
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