My boyfriend says I shouldn't wear makeup because it's not the same and that I look different with it and without it and that he prefers my bare face?

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Why would he say that? I think i look the same with it and without it.. it does not change my features that much... Just the pimple spots aren't that visible...

SnowedIn · Accepted Answer

There are so many things going on with this question.

First, it is true that almost all women look different with makeup and without. Not bad just different. So, if he said that it's probably a factual statement. Again, not bad, just different. You may think you look the same and you're right: your features haven't been changed but how they are "decorated" has.

Second, he stated a preference: your bare face. That's fair. Similar, in a way, as if you said "I prefer you with no mustache" but he likes it. Or I like my hair long but you tell me I should cut it. Preferences are just that.

BUT... this is where it gets yucky.

You wrote that he said you "shouldn't wear makeup." That makes me cringe and want to hid under the couch. If he said "shouldn't", that's disappointing. No one should tell another person what they should or shouldn't do or wear or do with makeup. Particularly because, in this case, I sense that it gives you confidence or pleasure -- he should value that.

Anyway, just my thoughts.

DirtyMop · Accepted Answer

He just like a natural look more

fantasticass · Accepted Answer

Men don't like makeup, and honestly I don't either. Natural beauty is always the best. Be grateful you have him. He is being honest with you. He sounds like a true gentleman.

Jennz6 · Accepted Answer

Do I look the same without makeup?

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Yeah. A lot of men I would say (including myself) do not like makeup. Especially if I’m meeting someone for the first time. It’s catfishing but a lot of women don’t think of it that way. Think about it, if a man posted a good picture of himself 20 years ago looking great, then you met him in person and looked completely different (he had good hairline, fit 20 years ago, now bald and fat) you would be immediate turned off, right? Imagine if a guy met someone and all they saw was her wear makeup. They get serious dating and then sleep together, they wake up the next morning and there makeup face is WAY better than there actual face… it’s the same concept. He if you were truly confident in yourself and your looks you really wouldn’t need makeup. Only society and other women push that.. you comparing yourself to other women. He clearly doesn’t want you wearing makeup. That should be enough for you to be confident enough to know he loves your natural face, not your “hide all the imperfections” face.

CALIGVLA · Answer

Some guys prefer their girls without makeup. And I'm one of those. Let me explain my reasons to do so. I like wearing white shirts, especially white henleys, and the makeup always stains it!

Additionally, it's not really necessary, since my girlfriend is naturally super cute. Well, you're naturally cute as well and maybe your boyfriend was trying to tell you so. Who knows if he's like me? "Oh, baby, you're so cute, you don't need to wear makeup and stain my shirt!" 😂

Anonymous · Answer

It's important to remember that everyone has their own preferences and opinions when it comes to makeup and appearance. It's possible that your boyfriend simply prefers a more natural look and likes the way you look without makeup. It's also possible that he is trying to encourage you to embrace your natural beauty and feel confident without relying on makeup.

That being said, it's important for you to feel comfortable and confident in your own skin, whether or not you choose to wear makeup. If you enjoy wearing makeup and feel that it enhances your features or makes you feel more confident, then you should continue to do so. It's important to find a balance that works for you and your partner, and to have open and honest communication about your preferences and boundaries.

AydenHazor · Answer

It does make a difference when with, even subtly. Most guys when they say that so it out of a place of jealousy, not wanting their girlfriend to look their best so other guys aren't checking her out, but some really do prefer they're girlfriend without makeup. I'm sure you look fantastic both with and without it

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think not wearing make up makes you look more unique cause any girl can look good with make up on but not every girl can look good without make up on. I think you look better without make up, cause your face is naturally feminine.

Billlewis · Answer

Sorry for all the comments on your page, but I agree wholeheartedly with the luckiest guy in the world. For those of you who are wondering who I'm referring to as 'The Luckiest Guy In The World', I'm talking about Ms. CoolCatMar1's boyfriend.

And yes, a very small percentage of women are actually even more attractive when they're not wearing any makeup; obviously you are one of them, Goddess.

PointTaken · Answer

It really does make a difference. You might not think so but there's a clear distinction. Some wo. en say there is not but most of us can tell.

Drdeeznuts1132 · Answer

I personally appreciate a face without makeup, but it's the person wearing makeup that should have preference.

alexking2 · Answer

He probably means it well and to a certain degree I agree that most women don't need a lot of make up to be pretty. However, it's ultimately your own decision.

trinibaddie · Answer

Do what you like with your appearance and body. I don't know why exactly he would say that. I know guys try to say that as a compliment sometimes.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I think he meant it as a compliment, that you don't need the makeup and you are beautiful the way you are. Perhaps, he just didn't convey the message properly.

Kyr0s · Answer

Guys generally prefer more natural, homely looks. Makeup often feels extra.. that being said, if you want to wear makeup, you should

melanieeeB · Answer

I wouldn't listen to that.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

He's trying to control your behaviour. It starts with not wearing make up but it ends with you locked in the basement. You need to nip that shit in the bud. In fact you should start slapping on extra make up to make him feel stupid.

RavVid · Answer

Perhaps he means what he says and says what he means. Some girls have such beautiful skin that it would be a shame to cover it with anything.

soe11 · Answer

I think you look more beautiful without makeup. My girlfriend is much better looking without make up but lipstick and mascara is essential though.

exitseven · Answer

If you wear it to please him you can stop. If you wear it to please yourself then keep wearing it.

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

U should be my girlfriend, I don't judge a girl

bowenw · Answer

He feels you are naturally beautiful and prefers to see you that way.

Stevefiveo · Answer

I think you should be able to wear makeup if you want. You don't need your boyfriend's permission.

CassandraSpender · Answer

He's trying to compliment you in a weird way

Alpha714 · Answer

Simplicity is the best beauty... On some faces it dont look good... Maybe u r one of them

Likes2drive · Answer

I think he is basically saying you don’t need it and fine without it

Tstrbrainer · Answer

He's right. You are wayy pretty in your natural self itself.  I always found your old pics lovely 😍

Michael09 · Answer

Tell your boyfriend you are still you, and if looking good offends him Adios Amigo

TallAnon · Answer

I actually think you look better without makeup, but the choice is all yours of course.

Paulychicagoluv · Answer

Maybe he just likes it natural on you. The natural beauty is the thing

megabamse · Answer

Might be his weirdo way to say your natural beauty

Marked_Man · Answer

I agree with your boyfriend.

Unknown29 · Answer

I agree with your boyfriend.

In_Trance · Answer

no makeup is always best

Pterodon · Answer

Most guys don’t like makeup

Preeti161101 · Answer

Natural beauty 💓

jjj101010 · Answer

Strange thing to say

Yellovv · Answer

Natural is good..

Notsoshyguy1985 · Answer

It’s true

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I agree with him.

collie22 · Answer

I get that

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