Do I like when a man jokes about doing domestic violence? why does a man do it?

[Anonymous]

I come from dom violence so i know how it feels i even had a nightmare about it last night.

A guy i know is nice to me and humane and he's a funny guy who jokes a lot. He jokes about domestic violence (not about doing it to me though).

[Anonymous]

I have never heard anyone joke about domestic violence but I guess it would depend on the nature of the joke. I'm not one of those people who thinks it's never ok to joke about sensitive topics just to spare the feelings of sensitive people.

[Anonymous]

Women talk about hitting or kicking a man and actually do it without hesitation.

Guys making a joke is nothing in comparison.

[DannyUk2017]

In every joke or lie is a "grane" of truth... 😉

[Asker]

I mean... He is so nice to me... Why?

[DannyUk2017]

Because he wants to get "under your skin" 😉, wants to know your weakness, ur kinks, ur pleasures, so once he got know these he can "manipulate" you...

[I87tjp98]

Maybe he want to love me?

[DannyUk2017]

Wait? Are u the same person? As it was anonymous? 🤔 but yes, that could be also true if he's true to its heart.

[I87tjp98]

Yes. I just feel like he treat ne like a friend not an object

[DannyUk2017]

Then is good, but just keep an eye for red flags, always.. if the "jokes" about violence continue, then u might have to be on your Guard. Better to be safe than sorry.

[I87tjp98]

Hmm... Can a man abuse one woman but not another? Why would he protect me but not another girl?

[DannyUk2017]

Wait, what? Does have another woman on the side? 🤔

[I87tjp98]

I am not his woman. He makes jokes about abusing his girlfriend

[DannyUk2017]

Ok, then maybe u told him about you'r past, and he might want to "apply" that to his girlfriend. He might think is a turn on, but to me sounds like is a fuked up (friend)... jokes like that cannot eve be made! Anyway its up to you how u want to continue this, but i'm afraid u might read in ur newspaper next that his girlfriend has been "chocked" to death or other kind of things...

[I87tjp98]

Oh no he doesn't know about my history.

[I87tjp98]

Why it can't be made?

[DannyUk2017]

He stil sounds "unstable" though... Jokes like that as i said in the beginning, are not funny, as from a joke, is only one step to Reality... but hey that is justmy opinion as i don't know you 2 personally.

[I87tjp98]

Did you know boys who jokes about abuse?

[DannyUk2017]

Nope

[I87tjp98]

Thanks. I hope he doesn't hurt anyone.

[spartan55]

What type of joking do you mean?

[Anonymous]

Id consider that a red flag.

[Asker]

he's so humane with me. I feel different.