Why did he ghost me for 3 days and went back to DMing me?

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This guy, that I knew for a month or so, DMed me almost everyday on insta, trying to open up conversations and know more about me by asking questions and also allowing me to ask him questions about himself, he's playful and a little bit of a flirt, I noticed that he was trying to impress me by sending me pics of his muscular body and telling me how big his thing is, he talked to me about his job and hobbies, sent me audios of him playing an instrument, I made an assumption that he was interested in me, he even called me pretty, smart and sexy.

Last week his texts became dryer and dryer (he's the one initiating DMs most of the time) he ghosted me for 2 days and when I DMed him he said "did you miss me?", I said "maybe" and he reacted to the response with a heart. After that he ghosted me for 3 more days, and now he just DMed me "Hey girl".

I'm thinking of ghosting him too because what if he's not serious about this relationship? (I don't know what kind of relationship we're having exactly but I hate being in a meaningless one). What if he's trying to make me chase him? How to make him think that I'm not that easy to earn?

We never met but we might very likely meet in the near future.

Why did he ghost me for 3 days and went back to DMing me?
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