I was friends with this guy named Grant for 2 years. We had so much in common and got along so well. Finally one day he asked me out on a date. He said he was interested in seeing if we could be more than just friends. I agreed that I wanted to try that to see where it went.
On our first date, we went to dinner then back to his place. We made out, then he told me he had always really liked me. I said I felt the same about him and we ended up having sex. After that night he asked me out on another date. We discussed the fact that we had sex. He said he didn't sleep around, and that when we had sex he didn't regret it and that it felt right. He also told me he wanted to continue seeing where things went between us. I said I was on the same page.
Well after that 2nd date, he completely stopped talking to me. Weeks went by and I reached out to him to talk. He claimed to be busy and promised to call me back later, but he never did. So a month later I sent him a text saying "Hey, just wanted to make sure things are ok between us because we stopped talking. It feels like you lost interest in me romantically. That's ok if you did. There is no pressure in us dating, and if you would rather go back to being friends then I'd be ok with that" . He BLOCKED my number after I texted that to him. And he also blocked me on all social media. It's been 1 year since we have spoke and to this day I have no idea why he just randomly ghosted me like that. Especially after 2 years of friendship. It really hurt me and I've spent a long time blaming myself thinking I did something wrong. I really couldn't think of anything.
Do you have any thoughts or ideas as to why he would of ghosted me like that? Any feedback would help a lot!
On our first date, we went to dinner then back to his place. We made out, then he told me he had always really liked me. I said I felt the same about him and we ended up having sex. After that night he asked me out on another date. We discussed the fact that we had sex. He said he didn't sleep around, and that when we had sex he didn't regret it and that it felt right. He also told me he wanted to continue seeing where things went between us. I said I was on the same page.
Well after that 2nd date, he completely stopped talking to me. Weeks went by and I reached out to him to talk. He claimed to be busy and promised to call me back later, but he never did. So a month later I sent him a text saying "Hey, just wanted to make sure things are ok between us because we stopped talking. It feels like you lost interest in me romantically. That's ok if you did. There is no pressure in us dating, and if you would rather go back to being friends then I'd be ok with that" . He BLOCKED my number after I texted that to him. And he also blocked me on all social media. It's been 1 year since we have spoke and to this day I have no idea why he just randomly ghosted me like that. Especially after 2 years of friendship. It really hurt me and I've spent a long time blaming myself thinking I did something wrong. I really couldn't think of anything.
Do you have any thoughts or ideas as to why he would of ghosted me like that? Any feedback would help a lot!
