If I’m not my types “type”, that’s a tell tell sign that I’m not really attractive right?

[Anonymous]

I definetly get attention from attractive guys who are my type, but they never really wanna get to know me. They always just want sex. Then the guys i don’t find attractive are the ones who also approach me and try really hard to get me. So i already know what it is. But i just need some clarity because u don’t see many people admitting this. Anyone else have this problem?

[MarkosSPL]

generally, almost everyone has a type, which they'll be more receptive towards, for me that's brunettes for example, but i'd also go for a very hot blonde if that makes sense.

think of it this way, if someones preference is brunette, and the girls attractiveness besides the hair is an 8 or a 9, if she was blonde, she would drop to 7, but it would still be good enough for me to go for her, you know what I mean? But this is not the case with everyone, some people just really want just 1 specific type.

I think one of the most "decisive" determinators in terms of "type", would be height. Someone who is 6'2+ will probably not go for a 5'3 female as she would look like a child next to him, and women would 99% of the time not go for a man thats shorter than them et cetera et cetera

some other things could be tattoos, some people are just really against them, or maybe smokers, et cetera et cetera

there are a lot of traits that goes to the "type" of one person, it does not all boil down to the attractiveness of the person so don't worry about it

[Asker]

Anyone can dye their hair to fit the so called hair Coker u desire, that’s not even anything. I’m BLACK , so if all u choose from are those 2 types of people I’m assuming u think other races don’t exist? But in the black community we have all different shades and most black men are attracted to lighter skinned black women vs darker skinned. And unlike hair color , we cannnot change our skin tones.

[MarkosSPL]

it was just an example, don't look too much into it

[Lionman95]

No that just says that the attraction isn´t mutual and not could be a hint to try to change your type hence the guys you feel attracted to aren´t interested in the same goals as you.

[justFriend]

this may tire you out a bit :(

[In_Trance]

nope