Husband tells me to wear something different when I'm wearing a crop top. feel offended?

[ForeverAngel1233467]

Hello so me and my husband had the following conversation today. For reference he is A and I am Z. I feel offended although he is saying it's just because I had ate. A: wear something different Z: no it's fine A: it's cold Z: no it's not, (puts top down) A: cover your belly a bit (does sucking in motion) Z: how cover my belly? A: does sucking in motion again Z: does my belly look fat? A: not fat, big, but you've just eaten aswell and your staying, even me when I eat my stomach looks big (shows me) Z: yeah I do wanna work on it A: do push ups and you'll see Z: yeah everyday A: sarcastically says 'everyday' Z: yeah but to get best results A: yeah Z: does my tummy look big? A: yeah but you've just eaten and you've been staying Z: yeah I know excercise is good A: yeah it is Z: but you said my tummy wasn't big bigger? A: it's not but it's because you've just eaten, it's not usually Z: ok A: silent Z: but why do you care if my stomach looks big? A: I don't Z: but why you saying anything then? A: I'm saying it can look better

[Anonymous]

You sound like a lot of drama. But no matter sounds as though he embarrassed by your stomach. Maybe you are getting pudgy. Maybe he feels like you shouldn’t dress like that seeing as how you’re married.

[Anonymous]

You feel offended I’m going to translate that into what it really is.
You feeling offended is you saying you were emotional whether you expressed it or not chicks that Say they feel offended we’re actually feeling emotional

[Opinion Owner]

Or being emotional

[Anonymous]

Wear whatever you want and don't listen to the men on here. It's no wonder they are all single losers.

[FilmGuy93]

Okay, so your husband gave you some criticism. Sometimes we need to hear things that we don't want to her. What's your question?

[EaterPeter]

You two stop dancing around facts. He believes what he believes and you may not want to hear it from him. I know how that goes.

[Anonymous]

Oh for fuck sakes... Are you over 18? Are you an inanimate object his property? does he own you like an inanimate object? Then wear whatever the fuck you want. You want to be taken and treated seriously as an adult then start acting like one

[Hallomonde]

Both those dudes below are stupid.

With this said, this MIGHT be your husband telling you, you are overweight or a way of him being conservative.

[In_Trance]

Smh...

[KrakenAttackin]

A married woman has no business wearing a crop top or showing a lot of cleavage.

[Anonymous]

Were your boobs on full display?

I love crop tops.

[Guy13]

You’re married. Dress like you are.

[Cb142]

he likes to control it seems