Guys, am I wasting my time with this guy or should I keep trying?

Anonymous

Timeline of events:

1. We met on July 2nd of this year 2. We did sleep together not long after meeting and then decided that we would be better off as platonic friends because we really got along very well. 3. He started talking to/going on dates with one girl he met just a week after meeting me and I know they were hooking up on the regular but me and him would still see each other 3-4 nights a week. 4. The girl he was talking to said she couldn't handle the relationship between he and I so she gave him an ultimatum that he would have to choose between the two of us... he chose me. 5. We started spending every evening together after work either going have dinner or drinks or just hanging out by his house and talking. 6. About two weeks ago we decided to cross that friendship line and have sex.

I've slept over at his house every night since the night we decided to have sex and he talks to me as if I live with him now. Everything he refers to is "we/ours/us". However, he told me a couple nights ago that he doesn't have feelings for me the way that I do for him but he does care about me and he's trying to get there and for me to be patient with him because this is a new development where we're having sex and sleeping together in the same bed every night. One night I told him I'd go sleep at my own house and he stopped me and told me he'd be upset if I wasn't there with him.

Some side notes of things that he does for me: He brings me coffee in bed every morning just the way I like it, and sometimes brings me a coffee to my work, calls me as soon as he pulls out of the driveway when he's on his way to work even though he just talked to me, calls me on his way home from work when he knows he'll see me when he gets home, fills my gas tank, takes me to dinner and never lets me pay even when I offer, comes with me to my family events, helped plan a surprise birthday party for me with my family, brought me to brunch with his mom and stepdad

What's going on?

Guys, am I wasting my time with this guy or should I keep trying?
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