My friend snapped my crush and said, "So and so said hi." He said "Oh." He knows that I like him. What could this mean? Good or bad?

[Amarasimmons7]

[spartan55]

You are 25 years old using a go between? How are you certain he knows you like him?

[Amarasimmons7]

Because everyone that I know knows. And everyone who I don't know who knows the people that I know know that I like him.

[spartan55]

Yeah but YOU haven't told him...

[Amarasimmons7]

Lol yeah I haven't

[spartan55]

You should, otherwise he won't take you seriously.

[Amarasimmons7]

How do I do it though?

[spartan55]

How old are you really?

[Amarasimmons7]

Younger than 25 but old enough to be on here now please answer my question. I actually need help.

[spartan55]

You may not like hearing some of this, you cool with that?

[Amarasimmons7]

Ig yeah why

[spartan55]

How often do you talk to him?

[Amarasimmons7]

Um... Not much at all.

[spartan55]

Why is that?

[Amarasimmons7]

Because I don't know how to

[spartan55]

If you can't even talk to a guy then you aren't mature enough to be in a relationship.

[Amarasimmons7]

Thanks but it's not that easy
especially when you have anxiety

[spartan55]

That's fine, then you aren't ready for a relationship.

[Amarasimmons7]

Do you understand what having anxiety is even like? Especially when you like a person so much, but you just can't talk to them, and you feel like you're going to have an attack? Dating is so much more than that. And if a guy sees that I'm anxious, he won't tell me stuff like you are. He'll comfort me. Anxiety has nothing to do with whether I'm ready to date or not.

[spartan55]

Okay, good luck.

[Amarasimmons7]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

If you don’t have the courage to tell him you like him face to face, just text him it. It will be a lot easier. Then go from texting to talking. Then meeting in person.