He said to me, You are out of my league but you are just my type. What is the meaning of this. Is he arrogant or a narcissist?

[Anonymous]

I have met this guy. He is from US and I am from the Philippines

We became friends and have a deep connection. He is wealthy and traveled in diff countries. While I am just a normal girl. He also said I'm lame cuz I don't buy the new Iphone and haven't traveled in other countries. He said it is cheap.. well for him it is😂.

[spartan55]

I don't think you understand what a narcissist is. That is just an arrogant asshole. I mean does it really matter what he is?

[Asker]

I don't want to be in a relationship with an arrogant asshole😂

[spartan55]

That's good, and you shouldn't be. 😁

[FooBar444]

The literal meaning is that he thinks you're hotter than him, but that you are the type he finds attractive.

The other behaviour you mentioned is kind of a red flag though, shows a lack of ability to see other's point of view.

[Guy13]

Oh please…negative 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

What?

[Guy13]

Don’t doubt yourself. Don’t be negative. It is not becoming. Does he know any Tagalog? I lived in a Navy town…. How old are you really?

[Asker]

He know to speak a little about our dialect. I'm actually 20. He is 22..

[Guy13]

Okay. You both are very young. Maybe you can teach him to say You (Name) is hot in Tagalog?

[Anonymous]

He's arrogant alright.

[ragadox9]

Girl run away 😂