Why does the father of my friends child think I’m a whore even though he met me one for 30 sec?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know if it’s because I called him out for being controlling and assaulting her or what but I don’t understand how he can say that when he doesn’t even know me and only breifely met me

[Anonymous]

A woman’s man becomes like her best friend, and she tells him everything, not all at once of course but over time he’s going to know all about you. I don't know how you carry yourself as a single person, but if you talk to a lot of guys or date around and your friend knows then so does her boyfriend and he’s forming his opinion of you based off that. For this reason I tell my close friend little to nothing about my dating life because I know she tells her man and he doesn’t need to know my business.

[Asker]

But I’m not I’m actually a quiet girl so I don’t understand probably the worst I’ve done is kiss guys at parties she said it’s because I go out a lot and get guys but I’ve only been out to party 9 times this whole year and kissed like two guys over that time so that feels like bullsh*t. I guess she might’ve told him about some guy I kissed because she was there, but that still isn’t proof I’m a hoe or something.

[Opinion Owner]

Unfortunately even that is enough for him to form an opinion about you. It’s annoying because who knows what she’s said to him and as someone who’s been in your situation it makes me wonder if the friend is a bit insecure and wants her boyfriend to think low of you, so she’s told him what you’ve done. Or who knows she could even be venting to him sometimes, especially if you are more likely to have men approach. Hell even if you’re not and she’s the one usually getting attention, god forbid one night all eyes aren’t on her, things like that can make her jealous (doesn’t make her care for you any less as a friend but we are human at the end of the day). Regardless don’t let his opinion bother you. It simply does not matter.

[Anonymous]

Why do care, you sound like his opinion does not really makes a difference...

Or you thing that he is right and you just curious how he found out so quick?

[Anonymous]

We guys understand the essence if whores much better than women. It's not difficult, believe me.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he believes rumors he might have heard about you?

[dustybiker]

Sounds like you struck a nerve.

[spartan55]

Why do you gaf what that guy thinks of you?