Does he think i’m a whore?

[Anonymous]

does my new long distance boyfriend think i’m a gold digger or whore he’s buying?

he gives me gifts a lot he knows i’m waiting until marriage too. he says he will marry me in a month or two, and he’s meeting me next week.

[Oliverlogan263]

I'd be kinda skeeved out by this situation if I were you. Getting gifts all the time from someone you've never even met in person is weird. And promising to marry after just a few weeks is a major red flag.

It seems like this guy might think he can buy your affection or something sketchy. Saying he'll marry so fast when you just started talking online is NOT normal. What's the rush? That screams issues to me.

I'd be real careful moving forward. Make sure you actually connect in person before committing to anything legal. Some dudes will say anything to impress a girl online, then change once they meet. Protect yourself - take it super slow and don't just believe everything he says.

If his behavior is too over the top or possessive, don't be afraid to bail. Your safety should be the top priority here. Just be wary and watch for any controlling behaviors when you meet. Stay cautious - hope it works out, but guard your heart too, ya know?

[ChicoFromThe305]

I doubt it, a woman waiting for marriage can't be a whore, whores have sex for money, you aren't having sex for gift cards so how would that work lol

[Asker]

but what about a gold digger? why is he giving me gifts so much?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Cause he appreciates You, if you aren't always asking him for them and he's giving them too You, They are gifts, if anything tell him it's making you feel bad that he is giving you so many gifts

[ChicoFromThe305]

You make sure that your love for him can't be bought and you love him.

[Asker]

we’re human and we have needs. women need security and a generous man (doesn’t mean rich) and men need sex and see what she looks like and if she serves and respects him. i wouldn’t expect a man to love me if i didn’t do any of that

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea but a marriage isn't just about fulfilling needs, it also takes communication, care, support, love, and loyalty to thrive, along with other things, sex might make the bond stronger but it's not a miracle worker, just make sure to both have respect for each other and love each other deeply, don't forget sex is only a function in a relationship, not the core of it.

[Asker]

thanks. he’s a good man seriously. he’s sweet kind etc.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm glad, happy marriage 😊💯

[Asker]

thank you

[Asker]

i feel guilty he’s giving me so much but we aren’t married i can’t gov shim sex

[ChicoFromThe305]

Tell him you are feeling guilty accepting all his gifts but you appreciate it, maybe he will slow down a bit

[Asker]

why’s he doing it. does he think i’m a sexworker? he said he’s gonna provide when we marry and i can’t work

[ChicoFromThe305]

No he's just spoiling you I guess

[Asker]

but why lol i’m so confused. someone online said i’m a gold digger because i’m with him

[ChicoFromThe305]

Do you love him foreal?

[Asker]

why wouldn’t i? i don’t trust men after all the lies men told me. so i’m not jumping to believe he really likes me

[ChicoFromThe305]

Y'all don't completely trust each other and y'all getting married in a few weeks? Do I even gotta say how unbalancing that sounds to a marriage?

[Asker]

i trust him. and i’m harmless.

[ChicoFromThe305]

You just admitted you didn't tho

[Asker]

i guess you’re just here to judge me and my words. whatever.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm not I already told you what to Do, the rest is convo but you Right, let's not waste anymore time ✌🏼

[Billlewis]

I doubt he thinks you're a whore at all. You sound like a wonderful lady.

[Asker]

damn. i love you man. even if you’re just blowing smoke up my fat cheeks. lmao

[Billlewis]

Oh, I guarantee you I'm not blowing smoke. You're welcome to message me if you want ❤️

[Asker]

i’m worried. he’s very dominant and controlling but he’s giving me so many gofts before we even met

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you ever met in person or will this be your first meeting face-to-face?

[spartan55]

Meeting you for the first time next week?

[FunkyMonkee]

How much did you charge him?

[Anonymous]

Have you even met this long distance guy?

[Asker]

next week

[LazerBean]

We do not know

[Anonymous]

Whore is a bad word use bitch instead.