How would a woman feel if a man showed her disrespect in the past and publically apologized to her for it?

[Anonymous]

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So I met this amazing woman.. we really hit it off. I was upset how things went between us before. I ended up sending her a message saying "well I guess you aren't the first one taking all 6 1/2 Inches, she felt disrepected as she should and blocked me. I ended up adding her o my tiktok but iwe aren't friends on there so I couldn't privately apologize to her So I made a public apology to her calling myself out and saying it wasn't right for me to send that to her. I feel like as a man, you have

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This is what I posted in the caption:
"I don't usually do public apologies and like to keep them private but as a man I have to own up to my mistakes and make it right and the only way I can do that is to publically apologize and call myself out for a stupid thing I said that made you think differently about me. I'm not asking for forgiveness, In no way have I earned forgiveness but I hope one day I can make it up to you if I ever see you again.

[SueShe]

If I was disrespected by a man that only was thinking about his penis and was frustrated that a woman does not jump at the occasion, then all the apologies in the world would not help.

Deep inside, that man still thinks with his genitals. I could reconsider my decision to accept an apology if the insult was not of a sexual nature. However, a man that needs to prioritize his genitals to attract a woman does not deserve an apology because the root of the evil is beyond anything that can be excusable.

That person has no personality, no character and no dignity.

[Asker]

What if I was drunk and didn't mean it at all? I apologized for it, acknowledged my wrongdoing and owned up. Like I said in the post itself on tiktok since I couldn't message her directly, I 5old her it was wrong for me to say it, "iwasn't in the right state of mind" but it's no excuse for what I said and I apologize for it

[Asker]

If it helps for clarity... The public apology is on my page nickfncola and it's the video of me wearing a black jacket

[Asker]

I even said. i don't deserve an apology

[SueShe]

You see, the problem is that when you are intoxicated, the true personality is revealed because people lack the regular inhibition.

If you spoke while being intoxicated, you simply said what you think when sober but are afraid to voice.

[Asker]

Well yes but at the time I wasn't in my right mind when I sent that since I usually don't do that and am not that way at all which is why I made the apology to show her that I am really sincere and am dissapointed in myself for my actions which I said in the video

[Asker]

This is what I posted in the caption:
"I don't usually do public apologies and like to keep them private but as a man I have to own up to my mistakes and make it right and the only way I can do that is to publically apologize and call myself out for a stupid thing I said that made you think differently about me. (since she doesn't follow me back) I'm not asking for forgiveness, I no way have I earned forgiveness but I hope one day I can make it up to you if I ever see you again (since she moved to Washington). I owe you a public apology to you for the message I sent before you blocked me on ig. Some people make mistakes but it's what they do to make up for them and if that's putting my ego aside when I made a wrong then that's what I have to do. Deleting this in 24 hours. There's no excuse for what I said and I am ashamed of that "

[Asker]

I just got into the dating scene at 24 so I have no experience with this kind of stuff.

[Asker]

Just want to make it right to her... That's all. No forgiveness needed... Just needed to apologize

[Asker]

Was it too much or should I just delete the post on TikTok?

[Asker]

To be honest, I wasn't intoxicated when I said it... I am a virgin and I said it because I was dissapointed that I fucked up with the only woman I wanted to take my virginity and go on dates with.

[Anonymous]

I'm not really a person who likes to make a commotion as I have anxiety. It would much rather he apologise to me normally without trying to do it in front of other people.

[Asker]

What if she blocked me and I made a TikTok tagging her in it since we aren't friends on TikTok and couldn't privately apologize to her. Check nickfncola on TikTok for the apology to get me of an idea

[Asker]

It's the video where I'm wearing a black jacket

[Opinion Owner]

Grow up

[Asker]

I am doing what is right and owning up to an apology. It's the only way j was able to apologize to her since I can't directly message her about it. I feel like as almost a 25 year old man, when you at wrong, you have to own up to mistakes and apologize. I even said in the video, I don't normally publically apologize and like to do it privately but I couldn't dm her the apology cause we aren't friends on TikTok and you aren't allowed to dm people if you aren't friends with them which is why I posted it and said I will delete it in 24 hours

[Asker]

I'm being dead ass serious and feel horrible about it and needed to make it right.

[Asker]

She also moved so I can't meet up with her to apologize in person

[Asker]

Would rather apologize in private if I could, trust me

[Guy13]

Embarrassed especially if no one else knew why you were idling it. It really depends on the circumstances. Sometimes trying to do the good thing can make things worse🤷🏻‍♂️ Background story⁉️

[Asker]

So I met this amazing woman.. we really hit it off. I was upset how things went between us before. I ended up sending her a message saying "well I guess you aren't the first one taking all 6 1/2 Inches, she felt disrepected as she should and blocked me. I ended up adding her o my tiktok but iwe aren't friends on there so I couldn't privately apologize to her So I made a public apology to her calling myself out and saying it wasn't right for me to send that to her. I feel like as a man, you have to take accountability for your actions and wrongdoings and one of the ways to make it right is to apologize. I did say in the video, I like to make apologies private but felt like I needed to address what I said and put my ego aside and publicly apologized

[Asker]

Check nickfncola on TikTok the apology is the latest video posted there

[Asker]

Lmk if I should take it down or keep it up. I did say I was gonna delete it in 24 hours after posting it

[dustybiker]

I think you might have burned that bridge.