š¤£I've seen this thread on Twitter and the when say they just cry when their man makes valid points when she is wrong about some situations. What's your take
Why don't some women like to apologize to their man after a fight?
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Anonymous
(36-45)
4 mo
Because of the following:
Many women think that āadmitting fault = admitting defeatā. Itās extreme asinine immature adolescent behavior. Admitting you were wrong about something does not mean you are wrong about everything.
the woman usually has no real respect for the man. However he offers something of value to her (money, attention, etc.) but she doesnāt care about how he feels just out of general principle.
the woman likely has an absent father or a whipped father controlled by her mother. She thinks that is āhow things should beā.
Women like this are often attractive and never had a man draw the line on them and walk away and mean it when she went too far.
Any way I was raised by a mother treated my dad like this exactly. They argued a lot and she almost always instigated it. She would never apologize for being wrong either. She would get this āguiltyā look in her face when she knew my dad was right. But her ego wouldnāt let her ever admit she was wrong.
Truth is I absolutely hated her for that. She used to preach to me about being āa good role modelā to my siblings yet she was a horrible female role model herself. Unfortunately that set me up to take more disrespect than I should from girls when I got older and tried dating.
Are ur parents still together? Also I asked a married man about something like this and he said "I care more about her not being mad than me being right" lol i don't look at me being sorry as defeat. If I'm wrong then im wrong
They threatened each other with divorce multiple times over the years but it never happened. They were high school sweet hearts and grew up in a different generation. My dad unfortunately had chivalry pounded into him and my mother grew up watching my grandmother control my late grandfather (which was very unusual in the time era).
My mother is also very beautiful and my father why well off isnāt rich nor famous. So his prospects of remarrying someone decent are very slim.
Heās scared of being alone and dying alone. Heās in between a rock and a hard place. So your ā "I care more about her not being mad than me being right" is a horrible reality for a lot of men living in the modern western world. Dating is much harder for men in the early stages when all else is equal.
But some guys (particularly young ones) have had enough and are going solo now. A recent study showed over 60% of men under 30 are single.
That is NOT a good thing. But itās happening and itās bad for BOTH women and men. Modern society is driving them further and further apart.
@theetrybrid just one tone comment real quick. Men know that women will be women and they will sometimes shit test, act unfair, irrational, etc out of emotion. Itās in their nature and happens often in the heat of moment.
The man needs to stay calm in these moments and let her āprocessā whatever emotion she is feeling. But after she calms down then THAT is the moment of truth. If she wonāt apologize and/or own up to her bs after that then she has no respect for him. If sheās still dating or married to him itās because he offers her something of value thatās outside him being a human being she respects. Itās horrible but it happens all the time nowadays.
Some people are just immature and can't admit when they're wrong. It's very childish. That's the same for immediate crying when you're wrong about something. It makes having an adult conversation very difficult.
I've seen some women do this but not all. I try to not be in relationships with people that are immature. This is also a form of manipulation in my opinion. If I cry I'll stop the conversation and he'll apologize. Thankfully not all women are like this.
You know, every time I see those memes about this, I have always wondered if it really happens. It is because I have no problem apologising when I am wrong. I know some unapologetic women, but not sure about the MAJORITY who refuse to let down their ego by saying the word āsorryā
I didn't know not apologizing was a thing either. But those women was dead serious in the ways they will never admit to being wrong and I'm like , I can't relate. My man gon get his apology and communication lol. I'm not gonna gaslight my man
I wouldn't cry if he was making valid points but iād probably be like āOkay and, remember when youā¦ā 🤣 Sorry but if we go down then we go down together! I ain't goin down alone 😂 Either weāll both be sorry or neither of us will.
Ima be like well you clear forgot the S after the U cause weāre talking about US which includes me and you, so either we both right or we both wrong or youāre wrong all by ya self. Like i said if I go down, i ain't goin down alone š
Im not sorry that im not sorry. I remember when my mom would be like YOU BETTER APOLOGIZE and iād be like okay but just know i dont mean it. Then she wouldn't even want it which means i got my way anyways lol. Its extremely rare that im sorry. I have to truly feel i hurt someone emotionally for me to say that and mean it
Ego and a gradual conditioning of mainstream female society that they are never wrong. That their rages, feelings, and temper tantrums are justified. Add to that a conditioning of men to be believe understanding, passive, apologetic, and genteel is the only acceptable response to female misconduct and this is what you get.
From publicly demasculated men (even Will Smith) to woke ideology that says even a manās eyeballs in a gym can equate to āassaultā to women being told their biology alone is worth everything a man should strive for - and itās all a perfect storm.
I'd apologize at the very sign of discontent and make sure he knows I honor his feelings and value his emotions. It doesn't cost me anything and makes me a better and more loving person.
Immaturity, however, knows no age limits
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Anonymous
(36-45)
5 mo
Some? You mean a lot. Because in a lot of womenās eyes itās never their fault. Their arguments are usually based on their feelings, not logic. Even when they know youāre right they donāt like it so they will punish him by not talking to him, not having sex w him, etc. Society tends to cuddle women, keep them from reality, make them think theyāre all 10s, that theyāre all queens. But that too is partially menās faults for telling women shit that may not always be true just to get between their legs.
I think it is when the woman feels less than her man in certain aspects of the relationship she needs to win in an argument even if she is wrong. So to apologize is to lose or feel less than her man. Whether it is her being prideful or childish, you never know but it is never good for a relationship.
I believe itās about maturity and loveā¦ I tend to not wanna make my partners felt like itās just themā¦ itās about two people on what they can do better together as a team and individually
Sadly, it's more accepted for a woman not to be held accountable for things they're wrong about. My take is that most of the times she doesn't apologize is because she's already plotting her next argument with him, in which she can win leverage back.
I try to do it. It is not a matter of being right. It's more like I know I could do better. So even if I'm right, I still feel like saying I'm sorry is needed...
I won't try to convince you either. I admire your self awareness cuz yes there is always room to grow. However , I will not apologize if im right lol. It seems to me u are a woman who just wants to keep peace after an argument.
It's not a problem for me either. all I'm saying is apologizing when u aren't wrong isn't fair to u unless u did realize u could've went a better way about something that was said or done on ur end
Well me personally if my man loves me deeply ad properly , takes goid care of me and he communicates well , I'm marching my pretty self right in there and apologizing to him expediously š
It is the main reason why I am with my lady to this day. I have never been in a relationship where a woman apologized to me for something she did or said.
Excuses. Of course people having a hard time apologizing have bigger egos than their head. Also you can only speak for yourself rather than "most" of you
Girl bye š By one post u think i base my life off of Twitter? š¤£ the fact u went out of your way to be negative under my post shows u are lonely , ur life is miserable, and no one else in ur life cares about u enough to talk to u everyday and I see why. Get u a life and stop projecting your insecurities onto others. Good day š
Your username suites u by the way š u dream of a better life than the sad lonely one u lead so u have so u troll others online to distract urself and feel better lol. Poor thing
From ur page I can see u post on here a lot so I was right , no one cares what u post on other platforms so this is where u feel like u matter šš u don't have a life and u are projecting like I said before š
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