đ¤ŁI've seen this thread on Twitter and the when say they just cry when their man makes valid points when she is wrong about some situations. What's your take
Why don't some women like to apologize to their man after a fight?
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Anonymous
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Because of the following:
Many women think that âadmitting fault = admitting defeatâ. Itâs extreme asinine immature adolescent behavior. Admitting you were wrong about something does not mean you are wrong about everything.
the woman usually has no real respect for the man. However he offers something of value to her (money, attention, etc.) but she doesnât care about how he feels just out of general principle.
the woman likely has an absent father or a whipped father controlled by her mother. She thinks that is âhow things should beâ.
Women like this are often attractive and never had a man draw the line on them and walk away and mean it when she went too far.
Any way I was raised by a mother treated my dad like this exactly. They argued a lot and she almost always instigated it. She would never apologize for being wrong either. She would get this âguiltyâ look in her face when she knew my dad was right. But her ego wouldnât let her ever admit she was wrong.
Truth is I absolutely hated her for that. She used to preach to me about being âa good role modelâ to my siblings yet she was a horrible female role model herself. Unfortunately that set me up to take more disrespect than I should from girls when I got older and tried dating.
Are ur parents still together? Also I asked a married man about something like this and he said "I care more about her not being mad than me being right" lol i don't look at me being sorry as defeat. If I'm wrong then im wrong
They threatened each other with divorce multiple times over the years but it never happened. They were high school sweet hearts and grew up in a different generation. My dad unfortunately had chivalry pounded into him and my mother grew up watching my grandmother control my late grandfather (which was very unusual in the time era).
My mother is also very beautiful and my father why well off isnât rich nor famous. So his prospects of remarrying someone decent are very slim.
Heâs scared of being alone and dying alone. Heâs in between a rock and a hard place. So your â "I care more about her not being mad than me being right" is a horrible reality for a lot of men living in the modern western world. Dating is much harder for men in the early stages when all else is equal.
But some guys (particularly young ones) have had enough and are going solo now. A recent study showed over 60% of men under 30 are single.
That is NOT a good thing. But itâs happening and itâs bad for BOTH women and men. Modern society is driving them further and further apart.
@theetrybrid just one tone comment real quick. Men know that women will be women and they will sometimes shit test, act unfair, irrational, etc out of emotion. Itâs in their nature and happens often in the heat of moment.
The man needs to stay calm in these moments and let her âprocessâ whatever emotion she is feeling. But after she calms down then THAT is the moment of truth. If she wonât apologize and/or own up to her bs after that then she has no respect for him. If sheâs still dating or married to him itâs because he offers her something of value thatâs outside him being a human being she respects. Itâs horrible but it happens all the time nowadays.
Some people are just immature and can't admit when they're wrong. It's very childish. That's the same for immediate crying when you're wrong about something. It makes having an adult conversation very difficult.
I've seen some women do this but not all. I try to not be in relationships with people that are immature. This is also a form of manipulation in my opinion. If I cry I'll stop the conversation and he'll apologize. Thankfully not all women are like this.
You know, every time I see those memes about this, I have always wondered if it really happens. It is because I have no problem apologising when I am wrong. I know some unapologetic women, but not sure about the MAJORITY who refuse to let down their ego by saying the word âsorryâ
I didn't know not apologizing was a thing either. But those women was dead serious in the ways they will never admit to being wrong and I'm like , I can't relate. My man gon get his apology and communication lol. I'm not gonna gaslight my man
I wouldn't cry if he was making valid points but iâd probably be like âOkay and, remember when youâŚâ 🤣 Sorry but if we go down then we go down together! I ain't goin down alone 😂 Either weâll both be sorry or neither of us will.
Ima be like well you clear forgot the S after the U cause weâre talking about US which includes me and you, so either we both right or we both wrong or youâre wrong all by ya self. Like i said if I go down, i ain't goin down alone đ
Im not sorry that im not sorry. I remember when my mom would be like YOU BETTER APOLOGIZE and iâd be like okay but just know i dont mean it. Then she wouldn't even want it which means i got my way anyways lol. Its extremely rare that im sorry. I have to truly feel i hurt someone emotionally for me to say that and mean it
Ego and a gradual conditioning of mainstream female society that they are never wrong. That their rages, feelings, and temper tantrums are justified. Add to that a conditioning of men to be believe understanding, passive, apologetic, and genteel is the only acceptable response to female misconduct and this is what you get.
From publicly demasculated men (even Will Smith) to woke ideology that says even a manâs eyeballs in a gym can equate to âassaultâ to women being told their biology alone is worth everything a man should strive for - and itâs all a perfect storm.
I'd apologize at the very sign of discontent and make sure he knows I honor his feelings and value his emotions. It doesn't cost me anything and makes me a better and more loving person.
Immaturity, however, knows no age limits
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Anonymous
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Some? You mean a lot. Because in a lot of womenâs eyes itâs never their fault. Their arguments are usually based on their feelings, not logic. Even when they know youâre right they donât like it so they will punish him by not talking to him, not having sex w him, etc. Society tends to cuddle women, keep them from reality, make them think theyâre all 10s, that theyâre all queens. But that too is partially menâs faults for telling women shit that may not always be true just to get between their legs.
I think it is when the woman feels less than her man in certain aspects of the relationship she needs to win in an argument even if she is wrong. So to apologize is to lose or feel less than her man. Whether it is her being prideful or childish, you never know but it is never good for a relationship.
I believe itâs about maturity and love⌠I tend to not wanna make my partners felt like itâs just them⌠itâs about two people on what they can do better together as a team and individually
Sadly, it's more accepted for a woman not to be held accountable for things they're wrong about. My take is that most of the times she doesn't apologize is because she's already plotting her next argument with him, in which she can win leverage back.
It is the main reason why I am with my lady to this day. I have never been in a relationship where a woman apologized to me for something she did or said.
I try to do it. It is not a matter of being right. It's more like I know I could do better. So even if I'm right, I still feel like saying I'm sorry is needed...
I won't try to convince you either. I admire your self awareness cuz yes there is always room to grow. However , I will not apologize if im right lol. It seems to me u are a woman who just wants to keep peace after an argument.
It's not a problem for me either. all I'm saying is apologizing when u aren't wrong isn't fair to u unless u did realize u could've went a better way about something that was said or done on ur end
Well me personally if my man loves me deeply ad properly , takes goid care of me and he communicates well , I'm marching my pretty self right in there and apologizing to him expediously đ
Excuses. Of course people having a hard time apologizing have bigger egos than their head. Also you can only speak for yourself rather than "most" of you
Girl bye đ By one post u think i base my life off of Twitter? 𤣠the fact u went out of your way to be negative under my post shows u are lonely , ur life is miserable, and no one else in ur life cares about u enough to talk to u everyday and I see why. Get u a life and stop projecting your insecurities onto others. Good day đ
Your username suites u by the way đ u dream of a better life than the sad lonely one u lead so u have so u troll others online to distract urself and feel better lol. Poor thing
From ur page I can see u post on here a lot so I was right , no one cares what u post on other platforms so this is where u feel like u matter đđ u don't have a life and u are projecting like I said before đ
She kind of already did lol a couple months after I dumped her she texted me trying to get back together. She said I wasn't clear enough (I was. I just don't yell) and she was under the impression that we were just taking a break.
I don't understand how her cheating is your fault especially when she could've communicated how she felt and if that didn't work them she could've just left
Agreed. I can't fix a problem if I don't know there is one. But I'm confident that she just said that to avoid taking accountability. I do and did work a lot, but I think I gave her plenty of attention lol
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