Friend of 12 years ghosted me?

[red324]

This is why I won't ever get married. My best guy friend introduced me to one of his friends that he's known for probably 8-10 years and we all hung out. I figured he knew most of his quirks so I guess I kind of compared notes to see if he did those things with his friend too. Looking back I suppose I said some things I shouldn't have a d may not have portrayed my friend in the best light. Anyways that was the last I saw of him.

Why disappear though? Why not confront me and say hey you shouldn't have said that.

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It's either that or his buddy didn't like me even though he acted like it and then went and talked shit behind my back. Hell if I talk shit at least I do it straight to their face.

[Guy13]

It sounds like you gave the new guy ammunition to be in your friend's ear. How well do you know that relationship. The Number three never works and that has been researched over 100 years. Is there any intimacy between those two?

[red324]

That was my thinking too. This new friend met was gay and I've always questioned whether my long time friend was gay and I think he is too. Not that I care if he his, but I still can't believe he would take the opinion of someone who only met me once but hey it happens all the time.

[Guy13]

They probably think your joking represented a judgmental and critical spirit. They may have been testing you as the one guy friend who knew the truth kind of thing. Don't know.

[red324]

Who knows. I hate people.

[Guy13]

I know right... If this world is out "Best Life"... hell can't be much worse.-Well it is but there's heaven and In Christ Jesus.

[red324]

For all I know he's pissed at both of us. He did get mad and wanted us both to leave.