The difference between flirting for fun and being interested?

[Anonymous]

Could you share details

whats the difference

[MysticDevice]

The level of persistence. A week or two? Flirting for fun. 4 or more weeks and it's probably more along the lines of interested.

[Asker]

Ig but he shows a lot of other signs too

He looks at me a lot! No matter where I am in the room. He glances at me numerous times lol that’s the first thing I noticed

During a meeting he said “I finally get to come over to you, how are you?”

He’s also touched my hand to demonstrate something bc I was so lost, but at first he used my finger then he lightly placed his hand on mine

[BettyBogas]

you are having fun doing one and not fun doing the other. Maybe they flirt in an interesting way that is interesting but still not fun but it is interesting but not to the point it is fun

[Asker]

Soo what’s the difference? How do Ik if he’s having fun or not?

[jackjackjack1989]

If its for one its only once or few times if its more its interest

[Asker]

If what’s more?

[jackjackjack1989]

Continuous flirting :P

[Asker]

That could still mean nothing

[Asker]

Ig but he shows a lot of other signs too

He looks at me a lot! No matter where I am in the room. He glances at me numerous times lol that’s the first thing I noticed

During a meeting he said “I finally get to come over to you, how are you?”

He’s also touched my hand to demonstrate something bc I was so lost, but at first he used my finger then he lightly placed his hand on mine

[Ironic_Method]

I do this all the time and still don't know the difference.

[In_Trance]

One is for fun and the other is for an interest

[Asker]

How would I know?

[In_Trance]

you give it time and make your intensions clear

[Asker]

But if he starts talking to someone else and kind of avoids you does that mean it was just for fun?

[In_Trance]

most likely

[Asker]

But why ignore me if nothing happened between us.. like he tries hard to ignore me

[In_Trance]

Only he can answer that

[Asker]

I keep asking myself why he’s avoiding

1. Was he playing
2 out of respect
3 or trying not to catch feelings

[In_Trance]

Or 4, he found someone else thats easier

[Asker]

She’s freaking hot lol so.. I don’t blame him

We are coworkers anyway

[In_Trance]

Alright

[Asker]

L alright what

[In_Trance]

It's what it's