We had two dates he told me he really liked me and now he can’t get over my past?

[Anonymous]

So we had two dates he told me he really likes me which I thought was quite intense

We spoke about past jobs and he knew that before lockdown I lost my job and with the industry I worked in it was difficult to get a job so I had to get something very quickly as I received no redundancy and no warning.

my friend previously had worked for a phone sex line and got me some work which thank god she did as it helped pay my bills, eventually I left and went back into normal work.

but he has a problem with it and is acting like I still do it and said how it will cause us issues on the future! What do you think?

[RavVid]

Well if he has a problem with it he has problem with it. A lot of guys do have a problems with high body counts or sex work. Understand your situation and the need to pay bills so I am glad that was available to you.

At the end of the day, only recently can men determine if they are the actual father of a baby so it is a deeply embedded desire in men to want women who they can have confidence in. 10k-20K years ago when we started settling in cities there were more possibilities then when we roaming the veld.

So while logically understandable there is going to be a viscerable male reaction. Sorry.

[Matthew80]

Honestly, I think that is hot and not like u were working the streets phone sex girls make me come so hard it's that that makes him jealous but he needs to grow up it wouldn't make me blink an eye not all women are sweater wearing soccer moms