Is he a bad friend?

[Anonymous]

He came all the way from Canada to the UK to visit me. But I tried to converse and ask questions about him he just seemed to be on his phone and giving me responses like "yeah yeah" he said he wanted to visit again but I don't understand why since he made me feel invisible last time should should just ghost him

[boggboss]

Why wpuld your response be to ghost him did u not learn to communicate?

[Asker]

I know but he was just on his phone throughout his visit made me feel like my energy isn't good enough

[boggboss]

So talk to him about it how would ghosting him be the best choice if thats how u deal with problems I see why u are finding it hard to find a partner

[boggboss]

Ah my mistake this ain't relationship wise apologies but if it was a friend it would have been easier to bring up that there was a issue no?

[Asker]

He just does it again and again

[boggboss]

And have u ever spoken to him about it?

[Asker]

Yes I did when I lived in Canada

[boggboss]

And if he didn't change why not end the friendship if its somthing that bothers u

[Asker]

He also dropped me off from work and he was like "could you hurry up"

[boggboss]

What's wrong with him saying that if u was taking lo g if he was doing u a favour

[Asker]

I had a lot of bags in his car doesn't give him the right to say it in a rude tone

[boggboss]

I could argue if someone is doing u a favour then doing something that they may see as taking the piss could be rude but meh better yet why would u stay in contact with someone u clearly don't like or believe is rude to you

[Anonymous]

Yes, and you are wasting time on him.

[Asker]

He came here during the summer and I tried to talk to him but he would be on his phone giving me quick "yeah yeah" and when he was out exploring he would be on his phone but when I tried to text him he would talk hours to respond...

[Opinion Owner]

He sounds very rude and I'm glad you didn't travel to see him.

[Asker]

No he was going to come here again... I'd rather not be around him again after the last time I just felt like my energy wasn't good enough. He's one of these people who like to show they have status and popularity... this idiot is 40 years old

[Opinion Owner]

Then just block him and be done with it.

[Asker]

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[Asker]

I totally agree tho time to get better friends

[Opinion Owner]

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