my boyfriend cries a lot
When he feels stress he cries, when the boss fucks him up and doesn't pay what he earned he cries, when we argue he cries
I dont know what to do
One minute he is very rude to me, then he is tender... in 3 hours he cries over some family problems, then next 2 hours he drinks with friends being very happy
Im tired of this crazy as fuck mood change
I dont know how to act.. what to say
He's a drug addict and alcoholic, and you don't even live near each other? What the hell are you doing?
Make no mistake: you cannot help him, and his behavior and his moods will get steadily worse as he sinks deeper into his disease. He won't be able to be helped until he hits rock bottom and things are SO bad that even HE realizes that he has to change. And, sad as it is, he may not survive that long.
But as much as you might believe differently, you aren't helping him by staying with him - you are ENABLING him. And at some point, he's very likely to try to get money from you (when he's burned through everything he's got), or even steal or commit fraud to get what you've got. That happens ALL THE TIME with friends and families of drug addicts.
The very best thing you can do for him is to end this relationship and move on. You cannot save him. The only person who can save him is HIM - and only if and when he decides he needs to be saved. That day might never come.
He is slowly destroying his own life - you do not need to let him drag you down with him - but that's exactly what he's going to want to do, and addicts are really, REALLY good at it. Misery loves company.
Don't blame yourself - this isn't your fault, but it's time to protect yourself, and let him go.
How old is he? It's okay to cry, but a man should be capable of overcoming difficult times with smart thinking. Tell him that he's acting immatured.
Change is schedule or hobbies might bring a change. Exercise, Read, make a good sleeping schedule, go out and meet new people, hear life stories. Before all these, if he's using drugs, that's the first thing to stop. If not ready, leave him.
its ok to cry, but thats a bit much? you can't cry over everything in life, he needs to man up a bit. he is very erratic, is he on something? or maybe have a mental issue?
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He needs a way to remove his emotions out that why he cries. You have to make him feel safe. And tell him to avoid drinking a lot with friends. Alcohol is not good in his situation
Talk to him about it. I have no idea. If it bothers you maybe break up or get counseling together
Give him a box of tissues and tell him to gtfo
Maybe his hormones are off balance.. tell him to see a doctor.
Sounds like he has MPMS.
Sounds like a Beta guy... ugh.
🤣🤣🤣 he must be really hot.
Is he bi-polar?
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