Asked a colleague out and he said we should wait for another colleague to have a drink together?

[Anonymous]

He’s my crush. I asked him out but he said that we should wait for another colleagues to join us together.

I thought that we had a connection. But seems like he doesn’t like me?

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Is it possible that he doesn’t want to have anything with a colleague?

[Tyrael]

Either he's not that into you, or he wants the first time out to be a bit casual to see how things go before committing to a date

[Asker]

Why just a drink is weird? Even if he’s not my crush I still ask colleagues out for drinks lol
And I don’t think he wants to first go causally before a date. Because sometimes we take coffee breaks just the 2 of us in the office

[spartan55]

He either isn't interested, is taken, or doesn't want to get 'me too' d.

[Asker]

What me too?

[spartan55]

Sexual assault allegation

[EmmaMary]

Unfortunately it certainly seems that way... Sorry.

[EmmaMary]

Is this other colleague female by any chance... If so maybe he's hankering after her.

[Asker]

No he’s not after her. She is a good colleague is both is us, she just delivered a baby

[Asker]

She’s a good colleague of* both of us

[EmmaMary]

In that case, this does seem to be extremely strange indeed.

Has he not given you any explanation why he wishes to do this... If not, then perhaps it's time you jolly well ask him.

[Asker]

Yeah pff i don’t understand why just a drink is weird? Even if he’s not my crush I still ask colleagues out for drinks lol
And sometimes we take coffee breaks just the 2 of us in the office too and there’s definitely sparks

[EmmaMary]

These coffee breaks seems like the ideal time to confront him over this matter.

[Asker]

Yeah I was being stupid by asked him for a drink. Because it’s my birthday so I said, it’s my birthday, let’s go for a drink in one of these days. Then he said let’s wait for another colleague to come back and join us for the drink.

Anyway I think it’s a clear message that’s he’s not interested in hanging out with me :(

[Asker]

I mean I said let’s go out for a drink with sms

[EmmaMary]

I fear you may well be right... Time to move on and enjoy life... Wishing you good luck. x

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[boggboss]

Seems he dont like u romanticly

[boggboss]

Thats completely possible especially in this day and age

[Nikki1989]

I think you might have it wrong with him.

[In_Trance]

Friendzoned