My boyfriend let his beautiful colleague take a sip from his drink at a work function?

[Anonymous]

I stopped by a work gathering of bfs colleagues after hours and there was some girl visiting from another office who is new. They were talking a lot and he then offered her a sip from his drink! Then I said I needed to go do some work and he said he’d see me later and stayed there talking to her even after everyone else was leaving. He came home at like 10pm and said she needed help with something. I also heard her make a comment about visiting her and he said “yea for sure” and I asked him about it. He said “her office!! Not her house!!” I dunno. I think he’s attracted to her. I also saw them do a weird pinky swear thing. He said she told him something and he promised not to share. I asked what it was and he said he promised her… he said they’ve only met and spoken at work. And per the title she’s fucking stunning (looks nothing like me by the way features etc.

[HollyK21]

Part of me feels like this is trolling, just because the situation is so obviously, blatantly inappropriate, to an unbelievable extent basically. I don't know how you witnessed all this and just let it pass. My fiancé would never. Maybe with family like siblings, cousins, even aunts, but just some random woman that you don’t know? Then fo stay late with her? Like….

[HollyK21]

**to stay

[Asker]

What part is trolling? I’m so confused. What was the point of this comment? To make me feel bad?

[DreamCrescent]

Holly is trying to say it seems so unrealistic because it’s just blatantly inappropriate. and at work, no less

your boyfriend should not be offering sips of his drink to colleague and neither should she take one. nor should he stay out late and help her. nor should she ask him to keep some pinky promises for her that’s so inappropriate come on. i hope it’s clearer now

no one wants you to feel bad. I’m sorry this is happening. i hope you figure it out soon. or take a cautious look at your boyfriend’s behavior slash his disregard of your existence

good luck, girlie

[HollyK21]

@DreamCrescent you absolutely nailed it🙏

[Asker]

Thanks @dreamcrescent

[DreamCrescent]

💕💕

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he’s flirting with her. The good news is if she’s stunning she’s probably not interested in him, but you never know.

[Asker]

She seems to like his kindness and interest in her

[Opinion Owner]

Then maybe she does like him back

[Staximus]

Is she just doing that to advance her career? Is your boyfriend even in her league? Does he even have a snowball's chance in hell with her? Probably not if she's as hot as you say. She'll be banging the vice president next week.

[Asker]

She’s more senior than him. She works more with his boss and his bosses boss. She’s a little older than us also like 5/6 years I’d guess. But she seems to like him lol like he’s really helping her on something she has a knowledge gap on and he keeps offering more and more it seemed. I was just taken back when he gave her his drink!!

[Staximus]

She's way out of his league, I don't know what you're even worried about, stop being a drama queen. He's probably trying to get a promotion

[Asker]

Then why is she drinking from his drink and staying late? And saying come visit me

[Staximus]

Is your boyfriend the best looking guy in the world or something? What makes you think he has a snowball's chance in hell?

[Staximus]

More than a snowball's chance in hell

[Asker]

lol no he’s a bit dorky but he’s super smart and kind. She seems to love it he was comforting her and telling her how great she is after she seemed sad about something going on at work.

[AviatorTom]

Your jealousy and insecurity is showing. Does it make you feel good?

[Asker]

A woman drank from my boyfriend’s drink in front of me and he offered it to her. Does it make you feel good to try and convince me that’s normal?

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode messy relationship signals and save your sanity, babe 💋

Yeah… this is a walking red flag parade. Sharing a drink, pinky promises, staying late “to help,” private secrets, and the “visit me” comment? That’s emotional cheating territory at minimum, and he clearly enjoys the attention.

You’re not crazy or insecure. Set a firm boundary: this dynamic is disrespectful. If he minimizes it instead of correcting it, that’s your answer about where his loyalty really is.

[DryGermanGuy]

Oh no! Not the pinky swear! :-o They have now formed an unbreakable vow!

[Asker]

Combined with her drinking from his drink… and him standing late in a bar to talk to her.

[Anonymous]

Hmm you might be putting in ads for a new boyfriend soon.

[Asker]

He’s attracted to her isn’t he?

[Asker]

No… she just got here and they just met few days ago. She lives pretty far away. But the point is that possible going forward. Although not that image. I don’t think she’s looking to service him. It looks the opposite.

[jahaims]

Don't date someone you don't trust. Common sense

[Anonymous]

How does she look

[Asker]

Kind of like a cross between Jessica alba Meghan Markel lol and she’s tall.

[Opinion Owner]

And what about u?

[Asker]

Different. Why does it matter? I’m also a different race than that girl.

[Opinion Owner]

What are your races