How can I make a move on a guy as a girl?

[Anonymous]

So there's this cute guy I have noticed at school. What can I do to make moves on him and try and shoot my shot?

Is it likely that when I start to make a move, the guy will have at least some interest back?

[Summeroflove]

Just ask him. Because if you don’t. If he’s so attractive. You know. A lot of women are probably thinking the same thing. He could very well find someone else if someone don’t find him.


Just tell him how you feel. I know it’s scary. I know there is a risk for rejection. But. There is also the chance. Something happens.



I mean. It’s the thrill of if.

[Stevefiveo]

Back when I was in high school. The girls would be like oh I need help with my homework. Can you help me? (Which is ridiculous because I was a horrible student). Then they would ask for my number, ask me to come over. Usually when the parents weren't home. Dress sexy, flirt, and make a move.

[Part2603]

Ask him questions. Ask him leading questions that suggest that you take notice of him.

[Asker]

What kind of questions are good?
How should I begin approaching him?

[Part2603]

Presumably there is something you noticed about him already. Say he plays the trumpet in the marching band, and you think he's cute and you're intrigued by him and you have all sorts of questions about what it's like to be in the marching band.

You can just go right up to him and blurt out, "Does it get hot playing the trumpet in the sun with the thick uniform on?"

The idea being that deliberately skipping the awkward small talk like, "Hi, I'm Melanie, what's your name?" or whatever and start immediately addressing your curiosity will allow you to express yourself.

Your goal is to get him to engage with you in meaningful conversation. As soon as possible, because life is short.

So to that end I say be bold, skip boring small talk, and let your natural curiosity lead your conversation direction.

This advice is sort of built around the assumption that you're kind of a nervous and shy teenager that sort of is already a little bit familiar with the boy. I'm coaching you on how to find your voice and overcome that initial approach anxiety.

But if there's another angle, then please elaborate. You gave us on Gag so little to work with...

Um, be prepared if he answers with a simple "Yes." to immediately ask a follow up question that is NOT a yes or no question. Like, "What is your opinion on Gershwin?"

[Asker]

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
This is incredibly helpful :)

[Anonymous]

As a female, you simply do it.

99% of the time a guy will respond positively.

unless you are a complete bog beast or he has a girlfriend

[PetiteBabe64]

Your a female use that to your advantage.

[Danny_dan92]

Message him