So I am a straight female and I have a crush on this straight guy who I met through mutual friends.
This guy and I are not too familiar with each other but have spoken here and there with casual questions or hellos for the past few months.
How can I make a move on him as a girl?
Just start talking to him. (Anon's suggestion and @rabbitzzz aren't bad either.) But, seriously, find something to ask him or say to him. "Cool shoes." Compliment his haircut the next time he gets one. Anything to get the conversation started. Then talk to him. Just things he likes. Or doesn't like. Get to know him. The other option is be bold. Say to him, "hey, get coffee with me?" This one girl did that to my son (they're both your age) and it worked like a charm. Bottom line: the move isn't so much a move as make a connection. He'll appreciate your confidence because it will make up for his shyness.
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It would be helpful for you to tell us how you met him, how you interact, etc. Is he a neighbor, a co-worker, a student in one of your classes? Are you looking for a long term relationship or a casual dating relationship?
Brush your boobs against his arm and then the next time you see him do it again. He won't be able to stop thinking about you.
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Give him a playful shove the next time you see him and give him a cute nickname that you can all him the next time you see him. That will break the ice and then you can start talking.
Sit on his lap.
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