I listed unique hobbies on dating site but guys don't want me?

[Anonymous]

I list stuff that guys generally like, such as baseball and Star Trek, but guys don't want to talk to me let alone think I'm a rare catch worth pursuing a relationship with. Why?

[mickmrly]

I think a lot of dating sites aren’t really tailored to actually meeting people, they are more tailored to hookup culture usually. Maybe that site doesn’t have tasteful men on there? You should try some other sites to see how things go there.

The men on your site will never know the greatness of watching Star Trek together will a nice woman who knows all about Tachyon beams and warp fields.

[slatyb]

How do you look? Even dating sites with written profiles will work better for more attractive people.

What else are you doing to meet people? Outdoor activity groups are great for meeting single men -- hiking, biking, skiing/snowboarding, canoeing, kayaking, sailing meetups have a lot of single men and few women.

[DavidRaul]

You listed things that guys like but what about you? You need to show your true self. You need to show them who you are and what are you looking for. Dont change yourself. Just be yourself

[Asker]

I included a list of those things as well. Nothing seemed to be earthshattering

[DavidRaul]

Just be patient. How long have you been on that site?

[Asker]

A few months

[DavidRaul]

And still no match? Maybe try changing pictures over that site. If you really wanna give it a shot. Try Hinge instead

[humanearth]

Get off the internet and meet people the old fashion way in person

So your into baseball, go to a baseball game

You like SciFi television shows, go where they go.

On-line dating never really works

[BJP21]

If you over list things I discovered potential matches go down in number.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Do you actually like the things you are listing? Or are you just listing them to get a guy's interest?

[NathanDavis]

I don't care for either baseball nor Star Trek

[Anonymous]

Gotta see your pfp