Boyfriend speeds when arguing?

[Anonymous]

i asked my boyfriend if he loved me, he was already pissed when I asked him. (He stated before that he doesn’t like me asking that bc it’s clear that he does or else he wouldn’t be with me) but he said that he didn’t love me. & I asked him then why did you reassure me that you loved me a few days ago? He was driving the car & began to speed. my question is why do people do this? Why do they speed when they are angry. What is the goal? To scare the passenger and then what?

[spartan55]

You sound like a pain in the ass. Keep asking your boyfriend stuff like that, and he will get tired of you.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

SAFETY TIP OF THE DAY: Don’t Argue When Someone Else Is Driving.

[Asker]

Yes i don’t think it’s a good idea either. But I was talking calmly & just asked him a question. That’s when he got mad and started speeding. That’s why I’m a bit confused because I was calm & I really wasn’t trying to start argument

[Static_In_The_Attic]

When you were talking calmly what was the question you asked him?

[Asker]

Why he doesn’t like to go out together, & if he loved me

[Static_In_The_Attic]

A good question that is & other than hitting the gas what was his answer to your question? On the other hand maybe he likes spending time with you alone instead of going out together.

[Asker]

He said no. We’ve talked about this before. I never know how he truly feels because he’s told me before that when he gets mad he tells me he doesn’t love me simply because he’s angry. He told me just last night that he loved me so it’s very confusing

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Confusing it is & maybe he doesn’t like to get questioned all the time or maybe he has some anger issues going on or maybe he needs a good blowjob. Instead of asking why he doesn’t like going out together tell him that you want to go out & tell him where you want to go.

[Asker]

Ha that’s the funny thing! I’ve asked to give him a blowj*b but he’s against it. He use to like it and now he doesn’t want to do anything like that. Not sure if it’s because we’re parents now or what but I think it’s weird. I doubt any man would tell their girlfriend no when she asks to give him one

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I always say a blowjob a day keeps side chicks away. On the other hand don’t ask if he wants a blowjob just give him one if he seems to get cranky or angry. Congratulations on being parents & being that you stated you are parents maybe he doesn’t want to go out because he’s saving money.

[Brando10222]

What was your reason for asking if he still loves you?

[Asker]

It seems like he doesn’t like to spend time with me. I would like to go out and spend time together. He said he just wants to stay home and watch movies. Which I’m okay with doing but I would like for him to take me out once in a while. I just feel like he doesn’t want to put any effort.

[Brando10222]

Tell him directly what you want. No indirect questions. If he still doesn't take you out, tell him you might consider ending the relationship. It works most of the time.

And if he still doesn't take you out sometimes then I'm sorry. You deserve better.

[Brando10222]

He sounds like a complete introvert. Non of his relationships will work if he's like that

[Asker]

I have told him directly. He says he doesn’t like doing things like that😕i do feel like deserve better it’s just hard to let go. Especially since we have a child together

[Brando10222]

I can understand. I know breaking up is a huge thing and we go through a lot. But here's the thing, we live once so we should live the way we want to. And you aren't even asking for exotic car or something that he can't afford.

And you both can still love the child even when you both aren't together. Have a serious convo with him and tell him how you feel and you are thinking about breaking up if nothing changes.

[Danny_dan92]

Might wanna breakup before you’re involved in a fatal accident. Boy sounds unstable af

[BarryLiverstone]

The goal isn’t to scare the passenger. It’s about power. Understand?