My boyfriend likes to argue with me?

[Anonymous]

he says that after we argue were just all over each other && he loves it. He tried getting me mad but I don't get mad as easily as before because that ended our relationship the first time.

So what do I do?

Should I start fights with him?If so, how do I do it?

Is that healthy for a relationship?

[palek]

WHATSA MATTER? CAT GOT YA TONGUE? I’M NOT THROUGH WITH YOU YET! GET BACK HERE AND ARGUE!

Hahahaha! I’m only kiddin of course. some couples seem to go through life arguing and thrive on it, but I hate arguing and couldn't love with someone who was always creating drama. It seems he likes to argue though, and if you feel like this is something you could do for the rest of your life and remain happy, then I guess you should go for it

[Asker]

Lol, Thank you for your advice.

[palek]

From what I can see, YOU'RE THE ONE WHO LIKES TO ARGUE! Think about it! Every single time you see him, the first thing you do is get on his case about every little thing he does that doesn't involve CATERING TO YOU! AM I RIGHT? HUH? Would it hurt so much to swallow your ego maybe once a week at let him FEEL LIKE A MAN FOR A CHANGE! Your little innocent act doesn't fool me FOR A MINUTE!

[Asker]

WOAH! That was exactly it the first time we went out and had our relationship. I admit it I got so mad and jealous because he wasn't at my feet and giving me all the attention. We broke up and then got back together. This time I have been letting everything go and I've been cool about it because I don't want to lose him again. But he recently told me he wants to argue because were all over each other after.

[palek]

HAVE YOU NO SHAME! You admit doing exactly what I accused you of in the past, and now you want me to believe you turned over a new leaf! Why not just SLAP ME IN THE FACE! The ugly truth is, you're the instiigator in the whole mess, and now that your guilt has you in the corner, you expect me to tell you what an unfortunate little thing you are! ADMIT IT!! YOU'VE GOT A LOT OF GROWIN UP TO DO! DON'T EXPECT ME TO MAKE IT EASY FOR YA!