Does He Just Wanna Fuck?

[Anonymous]

There’s this boy who I’ve been obsessed with for about a year now. This summer was the first time we ever met although I already knew everything about him. The first time we hung out it was at his friends and we got drunk and we made out but then I had to leave. He invited me again like the following weekend and we got drunk again and he drove me to the top of a parking garage and we talked for a bit. We made out and then we went back to his friends driveway and got into a random unlocked car. A few moments later I gave him head, mainly bc I thought he would like me or be obsessed with me if i did because he said he’s never gotten it before. The day after we were talking and he was telling me how he doesn’t want to date anyone anytime soon and I was very understanding, I just wish I knew before. He never starts a convo with me and he’s apparently a mean and sarcastic dude (coming from his friends) but whenever we talk, it’s like he’s just a nonchalant but friendly loser. He swiped up on my story when I asked if anyone wanted to come over and that was the first time he’s ever said something to be first, and it was him saying “otw”. I don't know why i’m so fucking obsessed with this man. Anyways, can anyone think of something, i just don’t think he’s interested in me but i keep making excuses for him and being delusional😔

[DavidRaul]

If you wanted a proper relationship, you shouldn't have given him head. It sends the wrong singnal that you are looking for a causual relationship, and he was fine with it. He is totally confused with what he really wants. If you really like him just don't engage in any sexual activity until you have a clear singnal that he is obsessed with you too and would wanna make it official

[Anonymous]

He looks less of you now for giving him head so soon. He might wanna fuck you since he suspects you'll throw yourself at him if he asked. That's all your gonna amount to. Besides all that, all the boys now know that you'll give head to get them to like you.

[Readicus]

I think he does but if you want you can start pushing the idea of a proper relationship.

[Guy13]

Yes as we all do 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

I think that’s so lame, I could love him and treat him better than any hookup could do for him, and i’m not gonna have sex with someone without any emotional connection..

[Avicenna]

Yeah, that's all he wants

[Iron_Man]

Just don’t give it up