What do guys expect a woman to do after he has rejected her?

[Anonymous]

Guy was interested in me at first, but then few months later when i confessed my feelings to him and wanted to date him, he said we should just continue remain as friends with no strings attached.

What should i do after the rejection? What do guys want us girls to do after getting rejected? Do guys ever think about the girl he has rejected?

[MystiKaL]

You didn't want him that way before, now he doesn't want you in that way now. At least he's being up front and honest.

You do the same as he did when you knocked him back; carry on being friends. He sounds like a decent guy to me, so no point breaking a friendship over this.

[Summeroflove]

Find someone new. Unfortunately it’s always a risk. It does not matter why someone rejected you. No is no.

He probably sees you as a friend. Not in a romantic or sexual way. It’s better for someone to be honest.

Find someone else to ask. I’m sorry. Rejection sucks. But there really isn’t anything else you can do.

If they like you. The balls in their court.

[Monalisa77]

What if you are picky and there's very few other options? I haven't liked someone in 4 years as much as i do now and i find it hard meeting people

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 would you rather be miserable? God has someone out there. You have not found your soulmate yet.

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 I’m picky too. But I know someone for me is out there.

[Monalisa77]

I dont think anyone would ask me out of their own free will

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 better then being alone. If you like someone then ask them out.

Why would someone not want you? I will send you a PM

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 nvm I can’t. Why would someone not want you?

[Monalisa77]

Im not like other girls, today i was absolutely in agony felt like i was gonna throw up, im a mess. I would have to act desperate if i wanted a date.. Most blokes would run a mile

[Monalisa77]

The guy i like in work atm, tonight i go over cos my trainer is talking to him, i start talking to my trainer, my crush turns round back to his computer then when were walking away he says thanks to my trainer, he's been doing this for 3 weeks now. We really got on and i ws convinced something would happen, if i feel that much like this and it doesn't i doubt ill ever get anywhere near

[Summeroflove]

I’m sorry. Some of my comments. Gosh I get so confused with questions sometimes. I apologize for that.

One question from someone was asking about their POS boyfriend and saying how if she broke up nobody would want her.

This is another question.

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 if you like someone. Just ask him out. Yeah you might get rejected. But you also might not.

I don’t know why all men would reject you.

[Monalisa77]

I don't wear make up, don't like strong smells due to sensitive nose, my niece even looks at me strangely, i get starred at by a lot of kids, my speech is poor, say stupid things that don't make me sound intelligent, am too shy to talk to guys i like no confidence

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 if you’re a good person inside. God probably has someone for you. Who you will be happy with and they be happy with you

[Monalisa77]

I think i am but can come across quite harsh because i was bullied and live in an abusive household. I let my emotions get the better of me

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 I’m so sorry. People have made you to feel like shit. Just waking up and being confident is easier said then done. It’s not a switch you can pull. When every time you feel the least bit confident. Someone smashes it.

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 believe me. I feel like shit about every day of my life.

[Monalisa77]

Because i really like this guy, i was letting him know he can't muck me about. I can easily get taken advantage off

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 does he seem sketchy? If not. Judd express that you really like him. That you want to maybe go on a date.

You never know unless you ask.

[Monalisa77]

I want to ask him y he's been acting like i don't exist but im too scared lol

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 yeah I’m sure you are. Even if you’re rejected you will have closure. Again. You never know unless you try.

I have chatted with two other people on here. I encouraged them to make a move and both times it’s worked out well

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 now I don’t want to give false hope. If he is outright rude to you or whatever. That might not be so good.

Just ask. I know you’re scared. But it’s the thrill of it.

[Monalisa77]

he's only said 1 word which came across rude, i thought we had a moment about a week before we stopped talking where he looked really moody but he still did something else 2 tease me afterwards, he's only behaving like thi5 over me, he's so friendly with everyone else

[Monalisa77]

But i was away for 1 day and i dont know if anything was said 2 him which he figured out i liked him. I just think if he carried on as normal but cut out the teasing i wouldn't have thought anything was going on. He also spoke about me 2 some1 else

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 yeah. It’s. It’s not the best sign. But. Maybe see what happens after you make a move. You never know unless you ask.

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 yeah I really don’t know. Is there anymore else who you like? Or could at least see yourself liking?

[Monalisa77]

I can't really do that because of work and my boss has been nitpicking me, i just want to know if id done anything wrong

[Monalisa77]

Yeah but there's just something about him that makes me feel hed b so good for me and were well suited

[Monalisa77]

I just find it really strange y he won't even look at me, even if he was keeping distance its a bit extreme

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 being honest with you. I don’t think he likes you. But still. You never really know

I’m sure someone out there does somewhere

[Monalisa77]

As i said if he carried on acting like normal i wouldn't b so pissed, he's making things so awkward. He was so friendly before, always taking an interest, asking qs n talking to me without me talking 2 him

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 so you ignored him?

[Monalisa77]

Surely he knew by teasing me he mustve known he can't go around during that with a girl when he's so good looking, he's single n using dating apps

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 I mean. If you ignored him. He might have lost interest. I say. Just if you like him. Ask him out. You never know.

[Monalisa77]

I tried that approach for a bit, if i knew what the deal was itd make things easier for me

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 if he is single then you could have a chance. Just ask him. It’s scary but. You never know unless you ask.

You keep waiting around and he’s definitely gonna find someone. Assume you’re not the only one who is into him and feels that way.

Then you’ll never know what it could have been.

[Monalisa77]

I did get too shy to come over and ask him about something and so i wondered if he was pissed at me for getting some1 else to do it.

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 what’s approach? Ignoring him? Unfortunately. He might have lost interest or figured you aren’t into him.

If you want him. Then ask him. If he already rejected you. Then I say. Be looking for someone else.

[Monalisa77]

The system was even down at that pt so its not like there was any work to do

[Monalisa77]

He didn't outright reject me, i dont even know for sure if he knows i like him.

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 just directly ask him out. I assume you have not. If he was showing interest and you ignored him. Again he probably moved on or is looking for someone else.

He probably thinks you don’t like him.

[Monalisa77]

Thats what im wondering re that i didn't go and ask him myself and i also didn't take his offer on something. I thibk he seems to lose interest a bit, i heard him talking about a girls name but hw didn't seem tht keen on her, maybe hws really picky 2😂

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 so he asked you out? I say. Make a move. Just express your feelings for him and see what happens.

[Monalisa77]

Not necessarily, and thats what i worry that people teased him it was a date when it wasn't..

[Monalisa77]

But even if they did, it doesn’t rule out him liking me he just didn't want it moving that fast

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 maybe.

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 I don’t know.

[Monalisa77]

Tbh they annoyed me with their comments. They dont like me either. I only wanna get to knownhim at this point

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 then find someone else. I don’t know what to say. Either you’re romantically into them or you’re not.

If you are ask him out. If not. He’s gonna find someone else. Point blank.

[Monalisa77]

His work mate made some comments he's been rather moody lately and just getting on with his work where as he can b pretty lazy. Once im done my training ill have more time to myself

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 yeah. Look. If you want someone. You need to ask them. If you aren’t into him. Then don’t. But I don’t know what else to say.

[Summeroflove]

But you did tell me you liked him earlier.

[Monalisa77]

Yeah I've liked him. Since i first met him, we had a really deep chat n he wasn't judgmental or anything. Tbh i didn't think there was going to be anyone id like in work as most of them are older, he's the best looking one easily 😂😂😂 i find it hard meeting people and hadn't liked anyone in 4 years

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 then you need to directly ask him out. I know you’re scared. You’re talking yourself out of it.

He’s gonna find someone and you’ll miss your chance. You know this.

[Monalisa77]

Spoke to him tonight cos i heard he was leaving and he sent email to everyone about the work night out and saying about it being a bonding excersize he asked if i was going but i can't im away im going to try see if we can arrange something next week

[Summeroflove]

@Monalisa77 okay that is perfect. Wish you the best!

[ShellyB]

I am v. sorry that happened. I think I would remain nice to him but not deliberately hang out with him or see him.

[Anonymous]

But even if they did, it doesn’t rue out him liking me he just didn't want it moving that fast

[athelete_7]

Move on dont think about him . He wouldn't have let u go in first place if he wanted u.

[Vegasrunner]

Women typically can't handle rejection, and usually act out in some emotional way. If I was that guy I would be very cautious, about being around you.

[allyoopever]

Bruh you are such a typical douche… “giRlS arE sO eMoTiONal” “thEy can't ConTrOl theIr fEelinGs” just shut up and go back to being unloved

[Vegasrunner]

@allyoopever Judging by the fact that you are unable to comment w/ hurling childish emotionally charged insults I would say you only serve to validate the statement.

[slatyb]

Do whatever you want. Why are you worried about what he wants?

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Not cry and not be passive aggressive towards us or any other girl we date especially if she is prettier than you

[allyoopever]

Bruh you are such a typical douche… “giRlS arE sO eMoTiONal” “thEy can't ConTrOl theIr fEelinGs” just shut up and go back to being unloved

[IdentetarianimSucks]

Either you can accept or move on, or you can kidnap and rape him.

[Anonymous]

You should move on. Guys deal with rejection all the time. If a woman rejects me I have no problem moving on. Theirs too many other women out there that I'm attracted to.

[Anonymous]

I would expect you to respect my decision and move on.

[panamared1]

if he rejected you, why would he expect anything

[RandomGuy1032]

Just remain friendly.

[Anonymous]

Do what ya like.