He hasn’t asked to meet up. We haven’t seen each other in 2 weeks. I try to hint but nothing?

[Geminigirl97xo]

He was busy with family last weekend so I won’t count that but this weekend is coming up and he still hasn’t asked me

i sent him this message and I try to hint but do you think this will work or is it better to just directly ask him?

I’ve told him before that it’s always me that plans meets ups and asks first and he said he’s never had a girlfriend before so isn’t used to this

We talk everyday via text and really thought he liked me but my friends are saying a guy who likes you will see you every weekend

bare in mind we live 45 mins away from each other so can only see on weekends due to 9-5 jobs during the week

is he shy or just not interested

we’re going to a Halloween event on 29th October but that’s so far away 😞 wanna see him sooner

[MrCommodore]

How long are you dating? How serious is it?

Usually in the early stages a guy would be eager to see a girl as much as possible.

[Geminigirl97xo]

He’s now said he’s thinking of booking a hot tub weekend away for me but I hate how I always have to bring it up. I’m his first girlfriend so don’t think he knows how to treat a girl

[MrCommodore]

I take it you have only started dating? His behaviour is a little strange

[Geminigirl97xo]

He said we need to give it more time

[Geminigirl97xo]

Been seeing each since September

[MrCommodore]

So you're seeing each other a few weeks at this stage. It's strange behaviour, as usually at this stage of dating a guy would be chomping at the bit.

40-50 minutes isn't that far, like a guy could pop down mid week for cinema night or something, so not sure why he is being standoffish

[Geminigirl97xo]

Probably because I’m not pretty enough

[MrCommodore]

Don't be like that, you are pretty, otherwise why would he have went dated you at all?

[spartan55]

He's not shy honey. He's either completely clueless, or doesn't care about your relationship. Neither are good.

[Geminigirl97xo]

Well how often should you be seeing someone per week if you live 45 mins away? I guess it’s not his fault he works long hours during the week

[spartan55]

Do you both have transportation.

[Geminigirl97xo]

Yes we both drive but finish work @ 5pm everyday

[spartan55]

That doesn't sound like a barrier then. You could go to his place straight from work and be there by 6. Hang out, be home by 11

[Geminigirl97xo]

He lived with his dad who doesn’t allow girls round

[spartan55]

What? Tf is that all about?

[Geminigirl97xo]

He lives^

[spartan55]

That sounds like a lie.

[Geminigirl97xo]

So you think most parents let their son/daughter have a partner round? Some parents be strict lol

[spartan55]

Never heard of any parents doing that... ever.
In case you haven't noticed, your boyfriend has a list of excuses a mile long, and none seem credible.

[spartan55]

Thanks for the follow.

[spartan55]

I had a girlfriend in college who lived 45 minutes away. We saw each other at least 2 sometimes 4 times a week

[Geminigirl97xo]

I’ve said to him I’m done and “wish you the best” and he said “just chill please, I want to see you, I’ve got something planned for you”

[spartan55]

Which is another bullshit excuse... wake up.

[Geminigirl97xo]

Lol what if he does end up taking me somewhere tho?

[Geminigirl97xo]

He said he’s gonna take me for a weekend Away hot tub

[spartan55]

Yeah, and I'm going to play safety for the Eagles 🦅, I have a tryout Monday. 😂😂😂

[melanieeeB]

He is not into you... also looks like he is ignoring you... sorry

[Geminigirl97xo]

But if you live 45 mins away from someone how often are you meant to see them? Also he sees his family sometimes. I can’t stop him seeing his own mum can I?

[melanieeeB]

Yeah but how hard is it, especially in this day and age, to respond to a simple ass text? Or just saying, hey I'm busy I'll get back to you

[melanieeeB]

Also my ex lived 45 mins away, also a family man and we still saw each other nearly daily... that's also not an excuse

[Geminigirl97xo]

I’ve said to him I’m done and “wish you the best” and he said “just chill please, I want to see you, I’ve got something planned for you” And I asked what.. “hot tub weekend away of your choice)

[melanieeeB]

So sex?

[Summeroflove]

Then be direct. He might have gotten the hint and might not be interested. That or you just need to be more direct.

[Alex8736]

don't chase just replace 😇

[urpapi69]

He's dumb to be ignoring a girl like you