One side love need help please?

[Anonymous]

ok hi hope everyone is ok so i like this guy he is in my family i get weird around him my tummy hurt and you know i dont think he likes me at all he is older than me with 5 years i am mostly stupid around him and he takes me as a kid i dont know what to do i need help i am hurt i took the whole situation so personally and dont think any guy would like me or look at me as a girl that they would like to marry i am afraid and think i am not enough so need help i guess what should i do and if i should get over how and i am going to see him next Tuesday for a family gathering

[Anonymous]

You’re not in a one sided love, you have a big crush on the guy and it’s normal. Being under 18, you shouldn’t be thinking or worried about freakin marriage. Just enjoy your youth because you spend so little of your life being young and it flies by really. Work on your self esteem, take your focus off boys and put it on yourself. You determine your own value, not outside validation or desirability from men.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know how this posted twice.

[Asker]

this made me cry thank you

[Asker]

its fine needed to read it twice thank you for the support

[Opinion Owner]

No worries love, don’t stress about all of that and enjoy your life! Everything falls into place how it’s supposed to.

[Asker]

thank you so much hope you have a beautiful day and you life will be filled with happiness and contentment thank youuuu

[Anonymous]

You’re not in a one sided love, you have a big crush on the guy and it’s normal. Being under 18, you shouldn’t be thinking or worried about freakin marriage. Just enjoy your youth because you spend so little of your life being young and it flies by really. Work on your self esteem, take your focus off boys and put it on yourself. You determine your own value, not outside validation or desirability from men.