What if she has never complimented your looks but has complimented your personality?
Its something we really hate, we never get compliments so if you give us one we'll hold onto it for weeks and smile from getting just one. My guess would be the average single guy gets at most ten compliments a month from people sometimes more or less depending on how healthy their family is but id say i get a compliment maybe 1 or 2 times a week so probably like about 8-10 a month. We dont even really compliment each other a lot some even think its something only gay guys do and asume you're hitting on them. Being a guy in this country is a lot crappier than woman realize in my experience. While im at it we hate the fact that so many woman think all we care about is sex and we're all emotionless unfeeling people. We like to cuddle, hug, kiss and just spend time with our significant other just as much as woman do were just not able to really say that because then were simps and pussys. Some of the pressure even comes from each other because if you dare to cry in public and be a man you're pathetic and week. We cry but not in front of others, we want to be the little spoon but are afraid to ask, we really aren't any different than woman in the regaurds we need touch we need hugs and we need someone to cry with who won't judge us.
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It doesn’t bother me. Most women don’t do things like that when it comes to you working hard or how hand someone you look. But that’s ok we work hard because we know what we need to do to get things done. We don’t work for compliments. Aside from the 27 year old who said we really hate that, I doubt that. Maybe kids his age hate it but men like myself, also older, don’t care. It doesn’t have an affect on a lot of us like it does w women. We usually aren’t emotionally driven to cry because she doesn’t tell us how good our new haircut looks, or how my makeup looks, or my new hair color, etc. I may sound like an ass when I say this but a majority of men don’t need to be cuddle through life the way a lot of women do because many of them get their feelings hurt by every simple thing. So now it wouldn’t bother me. I’d be fine like I am now. I think real men don’t give a rat’s ass lol
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I would be disappointed. I want to feel attractive to my partner.
If that's how she wants to play, I wouldn't be obliged to call her pretty, beautiful, cute or anything remotely romantic either. Tbvh if that's her attitude, I don't think our relationship may last even a week at this point. Nobody wants to date a narcissist
I don't think highly about my looks so I don't expect her to compliment my looks.
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I don't think I would ever have a problem with that... lol
but I really don't know I'd be perfectly fine. Sounds like someone has a codependency problem and those are fucking dangerous.
I have no problem with that, I am not so vain that I have to have those kinds of complements. As long as she is not telling that to someone else instead of me.
I'd appreciate her honesty because I'm an ugly MF but I have an okay personality, relatively high intelligence and not exactly short service in the bedroom department either
I'd wonder if she even found me attractive, still
I mean, I would ask the question, "Am I not attractive to her?"
Then I wouldn't think she felt that way about me.
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