My boyfriend has just started bachata, what should I do?

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Stop him immediately or he will be forever lost in love with all the Dominican Cocheta's.

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love it... Juan Luis Guerra is essential

well, I loved my ex-girlfriend being in love with music and dance... lol

here's a more modern take of Bachata

https://www.youtube.com/embed/4DO8GsIYfhQ

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I was once involved with a bachata dancer. The best thing you can do is trust him. I think if he wanted to cheat on you he would find simpler ways.

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Kick him with a cha cha cha dance than wrap it up with a Rumba

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FilmGuy93 Follow
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Why do you have to do anything? Lol if you want to learn, then learn with him

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humanearth Follow
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I didn't know what bachata is. So I did a duckduckgo web search. Its dancing and it sounds like a lot of fun.
If I was you, I would want to go to, learn something new and have a ton of fun with your man
Plus its great exercise, it would keep you trim, fit and limber
And another good thing it could boost your mood

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DoctorSex Follow
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There will be trouble ahead...
A very weird activity for a man in a relationship to get into without you. I sense a red flag.
Kind regards,
DoctorSex

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RichardoStyle Follow
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Maybe you can even do other dances like bachata.

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going-to-ibiza Follow
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My advice would be you learn it too so that you can dance together.
Or even better: you learn it together😊
Bachata looks so great if you got some skill level!

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Join him if you want. If you don't, that's fine, too.

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Summeroflove Follow
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Learn and dance with him. Even if you don't know it it is all about having fun

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learn bachata with him... imagine you two dancing really well bachata. just go for it and have fun with him

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Mangospacho Follow
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If your boyfriend does bachata, you bachata right back at him.
Fight fire with fire.

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- 18Uma21
  
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  Best answer
  
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Anonymous
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If that's my girlfriend who's doing it, I might breakup :) that's just an erotic thing like a lap dance.

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MountAverage Follow
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Are you required to do something? Like, did he ask you to do something? How about some context? We can't read your mind.

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- PetiteBabe64
  
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  Sure we can 😂
  
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- MountAverage
  
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  @PetiteBabe64 You do? Teach me please.
  
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annabananna Follow
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Encourage him! Maybe even join him! That’s great that he is learning a new skill.

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User3191989 Follow
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You don’t have to do it, but, he’s doing it to learn it. I learned salsa, by myself

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RARETRAMP Follow
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Break up with him as fast as possible!! what a freak he actually is just wow!!! just wow!!!

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18Uma21 Follow
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You should break up while he is still only a boyfriend

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Hardworkingguy Follow
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It would be awesome to share a dance together

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If you can't beat him join him.

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Anonymous
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Heh. your boyfriend is a Smart man. I think i should join Bachata too 😁

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Not sure what that is but not sure why u need to do anything?

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Join him and learn to bachata together

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You should buy a pair of tennis shoes!

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PetiteBabe64 Follow
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Get better than him haha

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Why do you feel the need to do something?

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Smoothing Follow
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Join the chacha dance.

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ohsheeT Follow
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Put a dress on and smile

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Join in too it's fun and sexy

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Ask to join him?

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I think anti biotics will take care of that.

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DermalPunch Follow
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Yeah I'd be nervous too. Hahaha

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Staximus Follow
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Prepare for him to come out of the closet

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BJP21 Follow
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Join him if you're into dancing.

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vj0090 Follow
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If I may ask, what's that

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- Asker
  
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  Search it from youtube, it’s a latin dance
  
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Do bachata with him.

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What is that?

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CuriousMufuxka Follow
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Move on before he takes a male lover?

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Learn it. It’s fun

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wdym what should you do?

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Anonymous
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Take up stripping.

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Join. In.

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BigschlongEnergy Follow
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Do nothing

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Steal his food

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_Just_A_girl_ Follow
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Go with

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Find a hobby.

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Joker_ Follow
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bachateez nuts

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Join him!! Duh.

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DiegoO Follow
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Join him.

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ZenJen444 Follow
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Okay?

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MONKSKIN1 Follow
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Go with him

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- Joker_
  
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  I agree
  
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MONKSKIN1 Follow
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Go with him

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- Joker_
  
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  I disagree
  
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MONKSKIN1 Follow
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Go with him

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- Joker_
  
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Anonymous
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Support him?

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Anonymous
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Why?

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