How Can I Improve Relationship with Musician Boyfriend? Extremely Difficult Relationship?

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Hi guys. I'm in a very hard relationship right now w/ a musician. I'm a normally very strong, independent, & successful woman, but things with this guy are starting to get hard:

My boyfriend is a gig musician, but after work he is still never "off". Again I'm very busy, & look forward to the time I have w/him, but whenever we go to hang out, it's still all about the music. We'll talk for 5 mins at night then he goes straight to work on the computer. I'll be talking to him, but he will be constantly playing, constantly on the computer w/his back turned working. It's almost like he's in his own "world". I try to support him, but wish he would separate the work/home life more.

When I do try invite him to stuff, he almost never wants to come, or prefers to stay in. I'll go often days without seeing him. He'll genuinely invite me to stuff then forgets to plan. I find myself doing stuff alone.

I try to be a good & supportive girlfriend. I make his flyers, arrange his shows (I'm a musician too!). Every day, he sends me his stuff and I give advice/support 100%. I truly support him & wish him the best! I know he is busy, so try not to bother him during the week.

The times I have bothered him, I've been in emotional distress and needed some support. He couldn't really support me in the way I emotionally wanted/needed & I felt distant.

The biggest thing right now is lack of intimacy. He loves me, but he is so busy with his work when we hang, it's like he forgets I am there sometimes. There is almost no physical affection in the way I need. I'll get a kiss or two sometimes, but he is so distracted there is almost no emotional affection. I'll try to reach out to him do sweet things, but he doesn't think to do the same for me. I guess that's just guys?

I know everyone says "not to date musicians", but I'm kind of starting to realize.

Should I breakup with this guy? Or stick it out. I've tried gently talking to him about how I feel, but I think he is set in his ways.
How Can I Improve Relationship with Musician Boyfriend? Extremely Difficult Relationship?
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