Dumper is playing mind games with me, why?

[babe444]

I don't respond to any of his bs games, I just wonder why won't he message me yet plays the game of keeping tabs on me?

[FilmGuy93]

As with so many other relationship issues; it boils down to control. The dumper wants to have control over the dumpee

[babe444]

Why though? What does he gain

[FilmGuy93]

Why on earth would you ever ask for a rational explanation for something like that? lol

[babe444]

Sorry this is my first rel so I don't know stuff lol

[FilmGuy93]

Gotcha! Yeah, people change a lot during breakups and such. They just become these generally manipulative, shitty, spiteful people. You can try to be as nice as you want, but vindictive people are assholes

[babe444]

They really are. Thanks!

[FilmGuy93]

Happy to help!

[Anonymous]

Ignore him for some time

[babe444]

I ignored him for 2 months now