Am I the dumper?

[Anonymous]

I was interested him in the beginning. I put a lot of effort. Then I lost interest since he didn't want it. Later he started pursued me. When we got together, he said something made me upset.

After that I completely cut him off. He asked me where did I go? But I've never talked him again

Am I the dumper in this case?

[Guy13]

Yes. You are the dumper.

[slatyb]

After one date, it's not dumping.

[Asker]

We have been sleeping together for a couple months. Not after one date.