Why he lies and next day tells truth?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend on Saturday sent me a voice text:"good night honey, im going to sleep"... i heard he was on the street or in a oub, because of music and noise

Was weird hearing that, normally he says that at home

The next day he says:"Im so sleepy, i went partying all night didn't sleep at all"

So... he forgot? he changed his mind on Saturday and decided partying instead of sleeping? he lied and forgot he lied? he just lied?

Whats the need?

He could just send a cute text thst he is "going to sleep" and thats it.

Id belive him since wouldn't hear the noise.

Why he did it?

[Spiritofn]

So he felt guilty about something. His loyalty wants to be there but it just quite isn't make him buy you flowers or something. Love is a bit different has to be earned a bit I guess the same but not right.

[Asker]

Could you explain more?
I mean he could say:honey good night
Thats it
I know on ssturdays he drinks with his friends
So... the:im going to sleep... was so unnecessary and stupid
I dunno why he said it
Ill ask him i guess

[Spiritofn]

So like family love is supposed to be very unconditional till toxicity is spewing out the mouth right. But love has a different flavor especially if there's not a heavy string attached. It's got too be raw and earned. A man has to provide, he also has to realize your supposed to be there till the day you die right, so an act of him bringing you flowers especially if he goes and gets gets the flowers is a true sign of romance as an example.

If he plays hockey would be another example saying he's goonna get in a fight that game for you and points at you b4 the scrap happens.

[Summeroflove]

If someone a a liar. Put a boundary and stick to it. Let him know you’re not going to be lied to. Or you might have to consider other options…. Other then being with him.

[Guy13]

Guilty about being out ⁉️

[Asker]

Why?
Why say he is going to sleep when clearly he is not giing to sleep with all that music there

[Asker]

Or you are right? because he said"Im so sleepy, i went partying last night... this csnt be like this"
Kinda self guilt
But he alwats does it always feels guilty then do it again

[Guy13]

Conscience is good sign. He’s testing you to see if you will call him on it.

[Asker]

I will omg i totally will
Why do that
I dont get it
Its like he has bad memory
Or lies for no reason at all
Then tells truth

[Guy13]

Gently or counterproductive. Don’t point out error. Heard music. Missed opportunity already. What time did you get to sleep last night has been missed 🤷🏻‍♂️ Your Woman 📡 must have been down.