Is he lying or being truthful?

[Anonymous]

... The guy that im seeing reached out on Thursday wanting to see me after work and I agreed... he calls me when I get off work saying that tomorrow night would work better to reschedule if I free... I agree and say no worries, we plan a time etc... everything's good to go. Friday comes I text him after work asking If he's home and replies saying he's feeling sick today and may have a fever... I tell him to get well soon and that's that... should I believe that he's sick? Or blowing me off?

[William7489]

In a case like this, I approach it this way. Two straight times he has canceled on you at the last minute using very generic excuses. However, there is a possibility they could be true. The next step is this. You wait. You’ve contacted him Several times to get together so he’s well aware of your intentions. He’s the one who’s canceled twice. If he is serious about you he will contact you. If he’s any kind of a person of character he will contact you because it’s his responsibility to do so after canceling. If you don’t hear from him, I think it’s safe to say he was not being truthful with you. If you do hear from him, and he takes you out and something becomes special from it then you’ll know he was being honest. Whatever you do, don’t contact him anymore. You’ve done enough.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Dunno but doesn't seem so good that he didn't tell you so upfront if he's sick. If he's responsible and requested the date, his first priority should be to tell you if he wants to cancel it. You shouldn't have to reach him to find that out.

[UnknownPuppet]

Hmmm could be both. Just dissappear for a while to see how will we react. If he comes back then everything is fine. Otherwise, all those things was excuses.

[BJP21]

Let him know you will be bringing soup and Vicks rub by... See if he gets uneasy.