So innocent guys like dominant girls?

[Anonymous]

He is shy when it comes to sexual stuff do innocent guys find it hot if there girlfriend makes a sexual move in a relationship

[NamerOfStars]

People tend to get WAY too hung up on labels. Does your guy like more sexually assertive women? Maybe- or maybe he's just nervous about it, unsure of what to do and/or how to tell if you want him to go further, or it what way. Or both; they're certainly not mutually exclusive.

It's important to remember that guys can be uncertain and anxious about sex, too, especially if they're inexperienced. Also (and this is a big one) that doing something once doesn't mean doing it, and only it, forever- he may need you to take the lead at the start, just to get things going, but that doesn't mean it'll always be exclusively in your hands. You can (and indeed should) be willing to try new things and experiment together- not everything will work, but even things that don't can teach you about what you like and dislike, and it's good to have options available. Now, you seem to understand this, but I want to clarify, just in case: despite what porn tells you, "dominance" in a sexual sense doesn't have to be harsh or cruel; it's about power and control (and, by extension, trust and intimacy), not pain and humiliation (though those can be part of it, if that's what you're into, they're not really the point).

In the longer term, it's also important to note that guys, too, like feeling desired by their partners- probably not to the same extent that women do, but he'll want to know that you want him, as well. Being the one to always initiate and always be the prime mover can wear a person down; even if it's only an occasional thing, I'd imagine almost every guy wants to be the one who's acted upon SOMETIMES. Experiment together and find out what you enjoy.

One last note: even if you're a horny teenage boy, it's entirely possible to desperately want sex and still realize you're not quite ready for it. He might be hesitant on THOSE grounds, but afraid to say so for fear you'll mock him, or not want to do anything with him anymore. Remember that in dealing with your man, you're dealing with a PERSON, not a stereotype; he may have all SORTS of complex feelings about it. Try to be as patient and understanding as you'd want him to be with you.

[Kinkyhubby]

I would say shebos dominant just because she made a few moves. I don't want if a girl makes a few moves on me, it let's me know, she is interested, she is horny, and we are going to have sex. Now if your talking that she may spank a guy, force him to Kiss her feet, and ass. And get into kinky stuff, I'm for that, but not all the time.

[JPresidente]

Most guys in general are fine with a woman making a sexual move in the relationship and taking control. The submissive guys for sure. Dominant guys are different and might feel like it's not your place or some BS like that. An innocent guy is not really gonna know either way so you're probably good.

[Ironic_Method]

I personally like sexually aggressive women, but that doesn't mean dominant. I'm not necessarily shy either, but I am introverted. It's a big spectrum and you should find out what YOU like and talk to your partner to find out what he likes. BDSM is a very potent thing to get into.

[Summeroflove]

If he’s innocent he wants to wait until marriage. That’s to me anyways. What every person wants in someone is different.


Respect his boundaries.

[Berethor]

Many innocent guys prefer innocent girls, but yea innocent guys more likely to be submissive.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I am shy when it comes to sexual stuff. I love when she dominates me. I am switcheroo. I switch very next movement.

[24_7_Amazing]

I dated a guy and let her dominate me in bed. She dumped me afterwards because she thought I was too much of a girly man.

[Avatar74]

I prefer a sexual relationship to be a bit of both, I don't mind a woman being dominant during sex

[Guanfei]

Some do. Personally I don't. I'm not dominant either, which means if you are, all you'll get is an annoyed look from me.

[Anonymous]

I'm not innocent, but still do get really turned on by my girlfriend making the first move sexually. I love it when she does.

[9214xs]

I think depends on the person. Even when I was young and innocent I liked dominant girls who were more sexual in behavior.