Why does playing hard to get guys to like you more?

[Anonymous]

They want shy girls

They wan’t control

They want high status women

They want girls who don’t cheat

They want girls who appreciate them

[Summeroflove]

It doesn’t. Lmao. Maybe stalkers. But most guys will loose interest. If a woman won’t show interest in me. Either she isn’t into me or playing games. Whatever.

If a woman plays or a man for that matter is playing “hard to get” and someone looses interest and finds someone else. It’s their loss.


That is one of the most retarded things someone can do.

[TheSpaceGnome]

For me it doesn't.

When a girl plays hard to get, I just assume she's not interested.

In fact, if she's not being direct and bluntly hitting on me, I assume she's not interested.

[Varanus]

Playing hard to get is a really good way to whittle your options down to complete douchebags. Good, respectable guys don't put up with that shit, and will take you at your word that you're not interested.

[Anonymous]

In my experience it's a great way to send the message you're not interested in a guy and lose him to someone who has the courage, maturity and character to show a man what she wants.

[goebenbreslau]

that's how masculinity works. footballers, prospectors... why are all of them men
because men like going after what or who they want

[Guy13]

They want girls who are not easy.