So I’ve been in a friends with benefits since July and just now he posted this on his IG story, what’s this mean specifically?

[RoyalValhalla]

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We have been in a friends with benefits since July, I will say we were having sex at least 2-3 a week and not long ago he told me he needed a break and that he has to be in the mood for sex. But he mentioned that on the phone this past Sunday, rather then tell me straight up an it's been 4 or so weeks now without seeing each other but we speak regularly but not everyday to make it clear. Recently he told me in short he wants to meet up since it's been awhile lol

[FilmGuy93]

Well, just because he posted this doesn't mean that it actually pertains super close to his own life, but what the meme is saying is that he has a bunch of options, but that none of them are good options and he's unhappy.

[Havthrills]

What about his other friends with benefits? Do you talk to them? Seems like he's wanting a relationship and is sad he's not in one just having sex.

[RoyalValhalla]

I absolutely do not I’m his only friend with benefits, he only knows of one of person who’s into that. He’s told me and publicly on his IG story he doesn’t want a relationship right now etc.

[Havthrills]

That pic is about two women who want him, but he feels no comfort. The smile face at the end with the tear kind of shows he's happy though. So maybe happy to have a 3some or want one? Also, I think you're the only one that has one friends with benefits. Do you have feelings for him?

[RoyalValhalla]

Honestly I do care about him, we both expressed that we “feel for each other”. But he doesn’t like threesomes only did it once when he was in 8th grade not his thing he told me. He told me either Wednesday or Thursday we will meet up, but I’ll definitely be asking questions on certain things.

[Havthrills]

It's good to get answers. Maybe you two will become actual girlfriend/boyfriend

[RoyalValhalla]

I definitely need answers. That would be awesome if it does happen, but I feel he sends too many mixed signals, so I have to question him thoroughly this week when we link up to see what's going on and how to proceed further with each other.

[Havthrills]

I wish you the best of luck. Hope it comes out how you want

[Anonymous]

Looks like he’s unhappy or feeling lonely despite having access to sex.

[RoyalValhalla]

Honestly, I really want to ask him about it. But he told me recently he needed a break and has to be in the mood for it. So I asked him would this week work to see each other again, cause he has been wanting to get a "hug" from me so he told me "Lol ill lyk" .

[Chazmatazz269]

Seems to me he’s learning that there’s more to happiness than getting laid. I’d back the eff off if you’re not ready for something more meaningful with him.

[RoyalValhalla]

Lmao I'm obviously ready for something meaningful with him. It's just he seems to send mixed signals a lot.

[spartan55]

What do you want it to mean? Hopefully you aren't hoping for the upgrade to girlfriend... that ain't happenin

[RoyalValhalla]

No, but I find it weird that he posts something like that. He recently told me he'll lmk when we can see each other this week. I just hope it's a joke is all

[spartan55]

Why does it matter? He is your dick on call... not your boyfriend

[spartan55]

He may have been fucking another chick and now that's cooled off. So now it's your turn for an at bat.

[RoyalValhalla]

I mean he’s told me he definitely not the type to rock like that and fuck other chicks. He is only 20 and I’m 25 so there is immaturity for sure. But this week he’ll let me know when we can meet up.

[spartan55]

Of course that's what he SAYS. If he doesn't fuck other chicks then why be in an friends with benefits? Come on... you are being naive.
.. you think he would admit if he had a full dance card? 😂😂

[RoyalValhalla]

I get what you’re saying. But friends with benefits should be strictly between both individuals not fucking other chicks? That sound like a hook up… 😂 yes he would cause he allows me to go through his phone so of course

[spartan55]

Uh... no?

[spartan55]

Why you need to look through his phone? That's really weird tbh.

[RoyalValhalla]

Not weird if he showing me what’s in his phone. That’s on him…?

[spartan55]

That means nothing, phones are easy to scrub, burner phones, etc.
So, yes WEIRD.

[Guy13]

Decision time. He is either bragging or one of you are forcing a decision is my guess ⁉️

[In_Trance]

It means you need to be direct and ask him what it means

[D_Bone_Steak]

You probably got to fat. He probably doesn't know how to get rid of you.

[RoyalValhalla]

I’m actually skinny now lol. I was big before but he liked when I was “thicker”

[boggboss]

Meh that he ain't fulfilled with baseless sex

[RoyalValhalla]

What's baseless sex mean? Lol

[boggboss]

Just sex for the sake of it

[Jamie05rhs]

That means there's another woman.

[Iron_Man]

Those never work out

[scott04sa22]

He’s unhappy